Jump to content

Experience of coming out to be Bi (Lounged)


jefferykon08

Recommended Posts

Being bisexual myself, I felt I had to share my story with you. I have known since I was approximately 11 years old that I could be with either a man or woman through BiMingle.com . It is the individual, the soul of a person that attracts me. At the age of 14, I had my first bisexual experience. Later I married a man and had a beautiful daughter. We have since divorced and I have now been with my new partner for 5 years. She is also bisexual. Even when I was married, I had bi tendencies too, but of course didn't act on them until we had seperated. I know there are some bisexual people out there that want both simutaniously. Personally, I am a one person kind of woman! I do believe Phycologists should not treat bisexuality differently then straight or gay. I have never bought into the confusion theory either! There should be a lot more done on this subject and more information available
Link to comment
Share on other sites

I must admit that I've never personally really bought the idea of bisexuality, not because I'm homophobic or heterophobic but because I've always looked upon Bisexuals as the ultimate hedonists...they want their cake and they want to eat yours too! I always thought it was a bit greedy. I'd be interested to hear from a confirmed bisexual as to what goes on in their heads re sex and multigender partners. You're right, its not talked about enough...educate the single sex partner luddites. Great thread. ;-)
Link to comment
Share on other sites

Bimingle is an interesting site for pre teens? It appears to have a higher age limit? When you say it taught you that you were bi, did you end up there by mistake? Or was that the place where you found both men and women attractive?


On a more intriguing note, can you have a first 'bisexual' moment? Or do you have to be hetero with a flash of homosexual inspiration or vice versa?


Can both thoughts occur simultaneously? Do we flip flop or are we like Homer Simpson caught between Moe's and the Donut shop, fated to remain forever in a recursive loop?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

what happened on the railway sidings? I only remebember graffiti .... damn .. what else happened there?


Would love a response to Huguenot .... when is the first "bi - moment" ... when do you get past the state of confusion?


Mockney .. I'm sure you know interweb been around for over 40 years now.. sorry .. I'm a pedant. I never had it either...

Link to comment
Share on other sites

CamberwellOz Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> If you delete this silly excuse for a website

> promotion - I might really tell you about some bi

> experiences.


Cor! Go on then.. normally you have to pay a pound a minute for this sort of thing.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I don't think I'm bi - not that there is anyting wrong with it. But I'm a sucker for marketing and long story short, I visited the site, signed up and now I'm meeting some guy named Norm on LL tonight for a drink.


I also stop and sign up for every charity street worker. Please help me.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Latest Discussions

    • I don't know how spoillable food can be used as evidence in whatever imaginary CSI scenario you are imagining.  And yes, three times. One purchase was me, others were my partner. We don't check in with each other before buying meat. Twice we wrote it off as incidental. But now at three times it seems like a trend.   So the shop will be hearing from me. Though they won't ever see me again that's for sure.  I'd be happy to field any other questions you may have Sue. Your opinion really matters to me. 
    • If you thought they were off, would it not have been a good idea to have kept them rather than throwing them away, as evidence for Environmental Health or whoever? Or indeed the shop? And do you mean this is the third time you have bought chicken from the same shop which has been off? Have you told the shop? Why did you buy it again if you have twice previously had chicken from there which was off? Have I misunderstood?
    • I found this post after we just had to throw away £14 of chicken thighs from Dugard in HH, and probably for the 3rd time. They were roasted thoroughly within an hour of purchase. But they came out of the oven smelling very woofy.  We couldn't take a single bite, they were clearly off. Pizza for dinner it is then. Very disappointing. 
    • interesting read.  We're thinking about the same things for our kids in primary school as well. One thing I don't understand about Charter ED is whether they stream / set kids based on ability.  I got the impression from an open evening that it is done a little as possible. All i could find on-line was this undated letter - https://www.chartereastdulwich.org.uk/_site/data/files/users/18/documents/9473A8A3547CCCD39DBC4A55CA1678DC.pdf?pid=167 For the most part, we believe in mixed ability teaching and do not stream in Year 7 or Year 8. The only exceptions to this are that we have a small nurture class for Maths. This is a provision for students who scored lower than 85 in their SATS exams and is designed to support them to acquire the skills to access the learning in mainstream class. We do not have nurture classes for any other subjects. We take a more streamed - though not a setted - approach in Maths and Science from Year 9 onwards. though unsure if this is still accurate reflection of policy, and unsure of difference between streaming and setting.
Home
Events
Sign In

Sign In



Or sign in with one of these services

Search
×
    Search In
×
×
  • Create New...