Miramum

Advise please. My daughter has just done the 7+. She has got places at Sydenham and Rosemead. I am not that impressed with RM and we also have the v likely option of a place at the Hamlet. Should I take a place at Sydenham or RM inorder to get her into a selcetive school at 11 +( and save my money !) or should I go to the Hamlet and tutor her if needs be? I really liked the Hamlet but they were very clear that they don't tutor for the 11+.