Voyageur Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Joyrider *^*^* Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > .....in life we all learn something from > > our own personal experience. > > Those small daily happenings is what makes our > > lifes so spectacular and I know, I can't choose > > how I feel > > but I can choose what to do about it, this is > > something I always like to remember "The > brightest > > future > > will always be based on a forgotten past " we > > can't continous in life if we haven't forgotten > > our failures and > > heartaches. Happiness depends on conditions > being > > precieved as positive. > > It is interesting, isn't it, how views on life > differ. My views on the above are somewhat > different in that we can achieve happiness if in > fact we DO learn from our failures and heartaches > and bear them in mind when we make important > decisions in the future, e.g. with future jobs or > relationships. The trick, to me, is to learn not > to feel bitter about them rather than to erase > them from memory. OK VOYAGEUR pls answer this question why do you think people become bitter, are you refering to a woman who previously register in the East Dulwich Forum. For what all of you have done to her does not have forgiveness. And another questions. Why all of you are concern. Please specify in detail what she did and what has make you investigate her private life. WHY! Perhaps some issues here that I am not full inform, but do you know is agaisnt the law. You don't have to be rich or poor to bring you to justice. Here we are talking about the health of some people who live in the East Dulwich area. But some of you have interrupt their privacy and distress them unlimited by intimidating a woman. I beleive a group of people are involve. Some single and married women have left the area for the same incident.