I really know how you feel Mrs TP.... Our house is sliding that way. I've been hanging on to the excuse that it's hard working full time and having small children who don't sleep through very often. But, they are sleeping better as they are getting older and I have changed jobs to something considerably less demanding so I just need to get a grip really. Pickle - I like your ideas!! Will try to implement the breakfast idea - however, would be nice to have breakfast with children and talk to them, rather than iron (but that's because I don't see enough of them during the week). (Also have a cleaner for 5 hours a week... Oh, the shame! And, the Jones' next door have immaculate interior (and exterior!) designed perfectly tidy houses.)