Otta, it makes me angry too that these services are not universally funded, as they are desperately needed. And cuts to services for children and families in need are only going to get more intense with this horrible government. However,it's not a case of "if you are not wealthy, jog on". There are organisations - including Rainbow Sibs, which I linked to - which work very hard to achieve grants from trusts and foundations to enable them to run projects and services for free or at a very subsidised rate where possible for those who can't pay for support. I happen to know that Lil has also put in thousands and thousands of hours of voluntary time over many years supporting families and children and setting up services outside of her paid job. Unfortunately the funding climate is very difficult and so I think the compromise which is sometimes struck is to offer paid services for people who can afford it alongside grant-funded and subsidised projects. It's an imperfect solution in an imperfect system, but the overall goal is to get children and families the help they need however possible.