sillywoman Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 sorry - should have added a ;-) for clarity of tone. 15 years & 4 children on though, one of the few things I'm certain about is that raising children in the best way you can will involve sacrifices. It's not a bad thing or a good thing. It's just a fact. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/10661-how-many-children-would-you-have/page/4/#findComment-469212 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClareC Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Totally agree sillywoman!! It's not a financial thing necessarily either!Edited to say my two are 19mths and 4mths. It can be Bl**dy hard work at times and I can categorically state they have changed my life significantly (not all changes positive!. That said, I wouldn't change anything and would happily have a third.... Albeit with a larger age gap ;-)Hardest sacrifice right now..... A good nights sleep with lay in!! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/10661-how-many-children-would-you-have/page/4/#findComment-469219 Share on other sites More sharing options...
srisky Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 I think we are agreeing, SW, that parents give up a lot of themselves (physically, emotinally, financially etc) when raising children. We have already given up lots of things but really nothing very important. I just don't think of them as sacrifices, it's just what you have to do. Just semantics, I guess. I think the definition of sacrifice is relative and depends upon what you have and what you've been through. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/10661-how-many-children-would-you-have/page/4/#findComment-469223 Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClareC Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 I had sleep.... Now I don't :-( Is it not a case of accepting the sacrifices that come part and parcel when you choose to have children?My youngest was a brilliant sleeper very early on but has regressed somewhat in the last week.... Worse than when he wS a new-born. No joke when you have a toddler up and full of the joys of spring at 7am and no chance to rest during the day. Do I mind my son getting up? No, it's part of the package I accepted in having him. Would my preference be not getting up every 1-2 hours? Yes, of course it would be. Sleep deprivation is a sacrifice despite not begrudging it! More worringly I still like the idea of a third..... Am just hoping should I have number 3 a fourth won't become appealing ;-) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/10661-how-many-children-would-you-have/page/4/#findComment-469227 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smiler Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Pickle, are you having a third? Congratulations! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/10661-how-many-children-would-you-have/page/4/#findComment-469271 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smiler Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Am now one year in with no. 2, and in same sleep-deprived, zombie state as I was in march 2010 when this thread was younger. No more for us! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/10661-how-many-children-would-you-have/page/4/#findComment-469273 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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