Expecting twins + have existing 14 month-old - advice needed!

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Hello All,

Wondering how many people in ED might be in my situation... Have a son who will be 1 yr 7 mos when our twins will be born, so still in nappies and pramming! It would be so great to meet any other parents of multiples, esp ones with another child very close in age. I've joined the Dulwich and District Twins group, as well as TAMBA. Dying for info about bits to buy (second-hand at this point!) that will make things logistically easier, as we have a flat with stair access outside and in. Even past success stories of raising kids in that configuration would be appreciated at this point!

Also, might anyone know if King's maternity students/midwives do any mother's helper shifts? I have a very limited budget, but know that after a C-section and with a toddler, I'll need all the help I can get, and have no family help... Advice appreciated!

Thanks so much for any help, advice, or supportive anything!