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I can see prices are a lot higher than usual due to the season. Still worth shopping around. But either way I would definitely state that cost clearly on the GoFundMe page as people will be inevitably be skeptical.


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> The money is to get her and her son a return

> flight to Budapest I have done some research on

> cheap airlines and have found the lowest price of

> ?678 return for both, as this is the Christmas

> holiday season I suppose that's why the amount is

> a lot higher .

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"Yes air whizz was the cheapest that I found the dates that she would be going for are for 2 weeks from the 23rd December to the 2nd of Jan so that she can spend enough time with her nan and mum. Thanks for the advice"


Well, if there's a shortage of cash then she and you ought to be flexible with dates.

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OK then, I'll try and be helpful. Every day you wait before you buy a ticket the price will go up and up until the day before, when, if there are any seats left it'll cost a grand a ticket. Think about buying now.


I'm not putting you down, it just seems that in my experience sometimes those in need can appear to be a tad unreasonable in their requests when looking for the generosity of others.


I'll say no more on the subject.

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I'm sorry, but I don't actually know what to say when there are people on our streets who have nowhere to go - especially in the context of your request - for Christmas Day.


If your friend needs to see her family, then the specifics of dates wouldn't really be such a big deal - would they?

It would be cheaper after Christmas holidays, for instance.


Have you thought about sending her a video? I'm guessing you talk to her regularly?

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