40th Birthday venue needed

[JessicaR]

My husband is going to be 40 in a couple of months & we are looking for an evening venue that can accomodate about 60-80 people, lets you bring your own food, and doesn't charge too much for hiring a private room. A bar would be nice, but we could bring our own drinks if the venue was right. I know, it's a tall order! Upstairs at the Mag is great, so we may use that (if I haven't left it too late) but it's a bit small for us, we would have to prune our guest list. We're after something in the Dulwich / Crystal Palace / Beckenham area. Can anyone recommend anywhere from experience? Thanks, guys.

[Fuschia]

Dulwich hamlet football club?