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We?ve just learned that a couple of weeks ago our cat Fudge was struck and killed by a car on Hillcourt Road. She was a tortoise shell cat and was found by someone other than ourselves. She was taken to the vet but where she wasn?t chipped no one contacted us until I saw what happened on the forum. To think we won?t be able to identify the body as it?s been 15 days since it happened absolutely kills me inside. I feel guilty as hell for not only letting her go outside but not having her chipped and only realising she had been missing for so long right now. Did anyone see anything? We need some closure. I need to know if she was in pain or not. I feel sick to my stomach.

We knew that she was missing, we didn?t know that she was dead. Don?t be a cunt. I?m heartbroken and feel guilty enough as it is, how insensitive can you be. My cats are my babies.


Update: We?ve just called all of the local vets to try to locate where she was taken to but none of them have had any dead cats matching her description brought in. I?m at a dead end. None of this feels real.

I am not being a xxxxx and happy to be corrected but this is what you posted and I quote, "I feel guilty as hell for not only letting her go outside but not having her chipped and only realising she had been missing for so long right now."

If you knew Fudge was missing wouldn't you of checked this forum and seen the post on 22nd October about her.

I understand your cats are your babies as I have cats too but they are microchipped and if they went missing I would be posting on here and out looking for them within 24 hours especially if it was close to fireworks night!

I?m sure s/he doesn?t need to hear this right now......


doolallysally Wrote:

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> I am not being a xxxxx and happy to be corrected

> but this is what you posted and I quote, "I feel

> guilty as hell for not only letting her go outside

> but not having her chipped and only realising she

> had been missing for so long right now."

> If you knew Fudge was missing wouldn't you of

> checked this forum and seen the post on 22nd

> October about her.

> I understand your cats are your babies as I have

> cats too but they are microchipped and if they

> went missing I would be posting on here and out

> looking for them within 24 hours especially if it

> was close to fireworks night!

doolallysally Wrote:

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> I am not being a xxxxx and happy to be corrected

> but this is what you posted and I quote, "I feel

> guilty as hell for not only letting her go outside

> but not having her chipped and only realising she

> had been missing for so long right now."

> If you knew Fudge was missing wouldn't you of

> checked this forum and seen the post on 22nd

> October about her.

> I understand your cats are your babies as I have

> cats too but they are microchipped and if they

> went missing I would be posting on here and out

> looking for them within 24 hours especially if it

> was close to fireworks night!


You are truly a nasty person. I hope you know that. I made a horrible mistake that cost my cat her life and I am hurting right now and you?re here to spread negativity and tell me something you know is going to cut even deeper. I hope you reevaluate how you speak to people who have just suffered a huge loss because quite frankly you mustn?t be right in the head. Find some compassion.

And an update for everyone else... we found the vet she was taken to and just went to say goodbye to her. It?s given me some closure. The vet said with the injuries she had it would have been almost instant. She advised me not to look at her so I didnt. I spent some time hugging the box she was in and speaking to her and that has given me some closure. She?s to be cremated this weekend and we?ll have the ashes back by Monday week.


thank you for your kind words.

Ronnijade Wrote:

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> And an update for everyone else... we found the

> vet she was taken to and just went to say goodbye

> to her. It?s given me some closure. The vet said

> with the injuries she had it would have been

> almost instant. She advised me not to look at her

> so I didnt. I spent some time hugging the box she

> was in and speaking to her and that has given me

> some closure. She?s to be cremated this weekend

> and we?ll have the ashes back by Monday week.

>

> thank you for your kind words.


So glad you found her.

My heart breaks for you but thank-heavens she will be back with her family where she belongs.

sending a hug.

NewWave Wrote:

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> Ronnijade Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > And an update for everyone else... we found the

> > vet she was taken to and just went to say

> goodbye

> > to her. It?s given me some closure. The vet

> said

> > with the injuries she had it would have been

> > almost instant. She advised me not to look at

> her

> > so I didnt. I spent some time hugging the box

> she

> > was in and speaking to her and that has given

> me

> > some closure. She?s to be cremated this weekend

> > and we?ll have the ashes back by Monday week.

> >

> > thank you for your kind words.

>

> So glad you found her.

> My heart breaks for you but thank-heavens she will

> be back with her family where she belongs.

> sending a hug.


❤️

Living up to your user name ?

Why not just wind it the feck in and think before you type ?

And if you can?t type useful to this thread then leave the keyboard alone.

(And if you want to retaliate with me, do it by DM FFS).


doolallysally Wrote:

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> I am not a nasty person, neither am I here to

> spread negativity. I am simply an animal lover

> who has only ever used this forum to help find and

> reunite lost cats and dogs. Sorry if the truth

> hurts.

Stop it all of you!

We're all entitled to our own opinions even if they may appear misplaced or poorly timed.

Yes people may question the OPs comments and others, of course, wont agree with them. I'll admit and say I have had similar thoughts too but chose not to voice such thoughts. Does that make me an evil cold hearted person (vibe gotten from other comments here). There is no need to gang up on another person in such a way. If you think they're trolling (again from vibes) don't fuel it. Simple.


Ronniejade - Sorry for your loss.

Utter nonsense... when someone says, after a series of other inappropriate comments ? the truth hurts?, that to me is fuelling a fire and adding a good dose of kerosene too... Save your Mother Theresa vibes for someone more deserving and hopefully this clown will pipe down next time she reads a post from someone who?s very obviously in distress. Perhaps then she?ll think twice on calling them out and rubbing their face in it and offer a bit of genuine support.



KalamityKel Wrote:

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> Stop it all of you!

> We're all entitled to our own opinions even if

> they may appear misplaced or poorly timed.

> Yes people may question the OPs comments and

> others, of course, wont agree with them. I'll

> admit and say I have had similar thoughts too but

> chose not to voice such thoughts. Does that make

> me an evil cold hearted person (vibe gotten from

> other comments here). There is no need to gang up

> on another person in such a way. If you think

> they're trolling (again from vibes) don't fuel it.

> Simple.

>

> Ronniejade - Sorry for your loss.

Frankito Wrote:

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> Utter nonsense... when someone says, after a

> series of other inappropriate comments ? the truth

> hurts?, that to me is fuelling a fire and adding a

> good dose of kerosene too... Save your Mother

> Theresa vibes for someone more deserving and

> hopefully this clown will pipe down next time she

> reads a post from someone who?s very obviously in

> distress. Perhaps then she?ll think twice on

> calling them out and rubbing their face in it and

> offer a bit of genuine support.

>

>

> KalamityKel Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > Stop it all of you!

> > We're all entitled to our own opinions even if

> > they may appear misplaced or poorly timed.

> > Yes people may question the OPs comments and

> > others, of course, wont agree with them. I'll

> > admit and say I have had similar thoughts too

> but

> > chose not to voice such thoughts. Does that

> make

> > me an evil cold hearted person (vibe gotten

> from

> > other comments here). There is no need to gang

> up

> > on another person in such a way. If you think

> > they're trolling (again from vibes) don't fuel

> it.

> > Simple.

> >

> > Ronniejade - Sorry for your loss.


Frankito get over yourself! Your attempt at name calling just highlights my point.

At this point you're just coming across as nothing but a bully.

Nah, this is me just being entitled to my opinion like you said before.. We don?t need to agree but to label me as a bully is as much hysterical as it is ridiculous...


KalamityKel Wrote:

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> Frankito Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > Utter nonsense... when someone says, after a

> > series of other inappropriate comments ? the

> truth

> > hurts?, that to me is fuelling a fire and adding

> a

> > good dose of kerosene too... Save your Mother

> > Theresa vibes for someone more deserving and

> > hopefully this clown will pipe down next time

> she

> > reads a post from someone who?s very obviously

> in

> > distress. Perhaps then she?ll think twice on

> > calling them out and rubbing their face in it

> and

> > offer a bit of genuine support.

> >

> >

> > KalamityKel Wrote:

> >

> --------------------------------------------------

>

> > -----

> > > Stop it all of you!

> > > We're all entitled to our own opinions even

> if

> > > they may appear misplaced or poorly timed.

> > > Yes people may question the OPs comments and

> > > others, of course, wont agree with them.

> I'll

> > > admit and say I have had similar thoughts too

> > but

> > > chose not to voice such thoughts. Does that

> > make

> > > me an evil cold hearted person (vibe gotten

> > from

> > > other comments here). There is no need to

> gang

> > up

> > > on another person in such a way. If you

> think

> > > they're trolling (again from vibes) don't

> fuel

> > it.

> > > Simple.

> > >

> > > Ronniejade - Sorry for your loss.

>

> Frankito get over yourself! Your attempt at name

> calling just highlights my point.

> At this point you're just coming across as nothing

> but a bully.

Frankito Wrote:

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> Nah, this is me just being entitled to my opinion

> like you said before.. We don?t need to agree but

> to label me as a bully is as much hysterical as it

> is ridiculous...

>

> KalamityKel Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > Frankito Wrote:

> >

> --------------------------------------------------

>

> > -----

> > > Utter nonsense... when someone says, after a

> > > series of other inappropriate comments ? the

> > truth

> > > hurts?, that to me is fuelling a fire and

> adding

> > a

> > > good dose of kerosene too... Save your Mother

> > > Theresa vibes for someone more deserving and

> > > hopefully this clown will pipe down next time

> > she

> > > reads a post from someone who?s very

> obviously

> > in

> > > distress. Perhaps then she?ll think twice on

> > > calling them out and rubbing their face in it

> > and

> > > offer a bit of genuine support.

> > >

> > >

> > > KalamityKel Wrote:

> > >

> >

> --------------------------------------------------

>

> >

> > > -----

> > > > Stop it all of you!

> > > > We're all entitled to our own opinions even

> > if

> > > > they may appear misplaced or poorly timed.

> > > > Yes people may question the OPs comments

> and

> > > > others, of course, wont agree with them.

> > I'll

> > > > admit and say I have had similar thoughts

> too

> > > but

> > > > chose not to voice such thoughts. Does

> that

> > > make

> > > > me an evil cold hearted person (vibe gotten

> > > from

> > > > other comments here). There is no need to

> > gang

> > > up

> > > > on another person in such a way. If you

> > think

> > > > they're trolling (again from vibes) don't

> > fuel

> > > it.

> > > > Simple.

> > > >

> > > > Ronniejade - Sorry for your loss.

> >

> > Frankito get over yourself! Your attempt at

> name

> > calling just highlights my point.

> > At this point you're just coming across as

> nothing

> > but a bully.


Ok fair play to you. Point clearly made ;-)

I am sorry I have an opinion that happens to sympathise with the poor cat that died rather than the owner who by her own admission didn't microchip it and didn't even know it was missing for at least 15 days. Having seen previous posts on here regarding her cats that again, by her own admission were not neutered so they got pregnant and not microchipped so they got lost she can hardly expect my sympathy!

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