Waldorf, montessori education and other alternatives info/book request?

[a.smith]

We have been researching lightly some alternative or more holistic education systems. We really want more old school childhood, good academic result in school and happy, content adult with great personality and morale. I am quit lost. Really like 50% or more of each education system. Guess we would need to mix and match what is suitable for us at home, but what should we do education wise? I got lost in the on-line information and would like to read something more systemised with practical advices-could you please recommend some books? Also we are open to any of the systems. More info on stages beyond nursery is welcome, as it is hard to find as detailed info on primary and secondary education? Is it good till certain age-there are many more nurseries that school, so just guessing reasons behind that? We really want child to be surrounded by children with like minded parents, who don?t like the atmosphere in schools these days and would work with child and personnel to build better environment. I guess I sound a little confused in that post, but it?s so hard to make choices that are the best for your child.Many thanks.