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At the moment I prefer being single. It gives me space to follow whatever path I choose.


Nicki, I was also in a physically abusive relationship, however as a former soldier and now copper I felt incredibly isolated and lonely. You cannot talk to mates "on the job" and friends that we had were retained by her in the break-up.


You should learn to value your freedom. By your logic, I should consider all women to be scumbags, but I don't. An entire gender should not be tainted due to one bad apple.

Being single beats being in a bad relationship by miles, or even a so so relationship. I found being single hard when I lived in a small town where pretty much everyone was married with kids, but in London there's so many more single people to hang out with, and even those that are in relationships seem less inclined to vanish once they've settled down. If you've got lots of friends you are often less lonely than someone in a bad relationship.


Nonetheless, I'm not giving up on the chance of love yet, will just be quite fussy. And by that I don't mean earns a fortune / drop dead gorgeous, just mean am not putting up with being treated badly. Fortunately I haven't suffered like some have, but my ex fiance concealed a very big secret from me that blew our relationship up in catastrophic style so honesty is going to be very important in the future.

indiepanda Wrote:

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> The story definitely doesn't involve any DNA tests

> or need for them I'm afraid so not Kyle material.

>

> Having said that, it is a good story but I'll save

> it for those EDFers I know in the flesh rather

> than baring my soul on the forum.


Nooo, don't tell us you 'took his points' for him?!??

maxxi Wrote:

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> indiepanda Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > The story definitely doesn't involve any DNA

> tests

> > or need for them I'm afraid so not Kyle

> material.

> >

> > Having said that, it is a good story but I'll

> save

> > it for those EDFers I know in the flesh rather

> > than baring my soul on the forum.

>

> Nooo, don't tell us you 'took his points' for

> him?!??


Lol, no.


Bet Vicky Pryce wishes she'd kept her mouth shut instead of seeking revenge.

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