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14 hours ago, se22 said:

Have we reached the tail end of the puns?

No, it's just a brief paws. I'm feline pretty confident we can sustain the puns fur-ever.

21 hours ago, Sue said:

🤣 at the puns.

Seriously though, thank you for not assuming he must be lost just because he followed you a long way.

Thank you for posting on here rather than  taking him back to your house!

Of course! Not least because I live in Sydenham, so that would be a long way to take him out of his manor, he'd have been very confused. He looked pretty happy, I just thought it made sense to check.

18 hours ago, se22 said:

He seems purr-fectly happy pussyfooting around Lodship lane. 

I got a bit nervous when he decided to cross the road, but he must have thought it was a whisk(er) worth taking.

But it's not for me to paw-lice his movements.

5 minutes ago, teddyboy23 said:

Nope I think he just used to browse through the CAT-alogues

Fur play to the lad.

10 minutes ago, teddyboy23 said:

Don't know if Raymondo still does it.but he used to wander in and out the co op.which was last year😊 this cat knows how to chill.

Did he shoplift snack food like seagulls sometimes do, or did he queue up and pay like a responsible southeast London citizen?

Ah, grand! Yeah he was lurking near the vet when he first decided to promenade along Lordship Lane with us.  A friendly chap though he took gentle umbrage at me removing some of the leaves from his fur.

Raymond!! What a treasure. Long may he maraud.

He/she followed me and my friends quite a long way along the road so we worried they might be out of their catchment area. Quite dusty paws which also made me think perhaps they’d been roaming away from home for a few days.

Took photos in case anyone is missing them! Very pretty, friendly long-haired black and white cat, leopard print collar, pink paw-print metal tag. They eventually stopped following us across the road from Mrs Robinson.

I'm seeking help with a small carpentry & plastering job in my bathroom. Water has eroded the plaster around my bath, and damaged the wood surround under the plaster, so I'm looking to have this wood replaced, and the plaster repaired and recaulked where the wall meets the bath. (The rest of the walls seem fine!). I'm based in Sydenham.

Recommendations from happy customers would be welcomed!

Signed and shared on Twitter. They can't impose these kind of rent hikes and expect small businesses to survive.

Spider spray does help a bit - they don't like the smell (peppermint!) so will avoid rooms where you use it. I love my spider spray. Sprayed liberally on the thresholds of doors and windows!

I'm told they are generally averse to citrus, peppermint and eucalyptus smells. All smells I am perfectly happy to have around my home, especially if they keep the horrid little beasties away.

That said, there is a tiny little chap who seems to have taken up residence in a glass in my room. He's about 75mm across, and for a spider, *almost* cute (he's a bit like a cartoon spider), so given that he doesn't move a great deal, I'm happy for him to hang out as long as he doesn't do anything surprising.

I'm a pretty trenchant feminist. But if someone offers me their seat on the train (I don't expect them to, I'm in my early 30s so no-one would assume I need it), I'm happily surprised - I'll take it and say thank you. Transport during rush hour can be pretty self-serving and unfriendly, people shoving each other to get on packed trains etc - so something like that is refreshingly unselfish.

A chap about my age got up and gave me his seat on the tube the other day and I just thought "how kind!" and thanked him. I can't tell you what his motivation for doing so was, but he wasn't flirty, creepy or patronising, so I just took it as a simple act of kindness.

I agree that expectations about this sort of thing should generally be reserved for those less able to stand. But I don't think the pursuit of equality has to stop people doing nice things for each other. I like benefitting from chivalry, and I pay it back to both men and women; I like the idea of delinking it from problematic oldskool expectations about how men & women relate to each other. I guess if men and women all behaved in traditionally 'chivalrous' ways to each other, rather than it being how men "should" treat women (or are told they shouldn't any more), as a society we would just look out for each other more.

LadyDeliah Wrote:

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> No don't! With chivalry comes expectations and

> preconditions, plus a load of other baggage women

> have tried to get rid of for the past century.

>

> Eff that. I'd rather stand up than have someone

> patronise me.

>

> If someone is less able to stand, whether they are

> male or female, they should be given a seat. If

> your feet are killing because you are wearing high

> or tight shoes, get a pair of trainers.

I don't think one can compare the Overground service in south London to a tube service. The Overground is definitely useful particularly for commuting, but even setting aside the difference in frequency of trains, the seemingly constant engineering works mean that there's often limited or no weekend service anyway. That's true on both the Clapham Junction line and the Crystal Palace line - this weekend was a delight, finding that a return trip that should have taken about an hour and a half took twice that because the Overground was largely out of action.

By the way, here's a fun bit of info I was told by someone who works for TFL: contractors often book station/line closures for works, but don't necessarily carry out the works - something changes, and the date gets shifted. The stations remain closed, though, because they didn't bother to cancel the closures and tell anyone they won't be showing up. So that's good, isn't it?

I'd avoid trying to get an appointment at the Melbourne Grove surgery. I've been with them for years, and the service/care isn't bad, but just try getting through on the phone.

I called this afternoon, and after a few minutes of the usual merry dance of "Call busy" / try again / "call busy" / try again that usually happens when you call them, I finally got through to an automated message which told me I was in a queue - number 3. Fine. Ten minutes later, I reached number 1, and then the phone started to ring. And ring. And ring.

It's a slow day at work, so I let it carry on - just a ringing tone for ten minutes, with no sign of life on the other side. After a total of 25 minutes on hold, I hung up, and tried again. "Call busy". Total time wasted: about half an hour, to get nowhere at all.

Useless.

I've been in & out of Kings a fair bit recently, in more than one department, and would like to second the words from other people here; I've been constantly impressed, in particular, by how much care the staff take to just be kind and reassuring to people. Being nice to people sounds like a no-brainer but when you see how full their waiting rooms are, how many people they have to look after, and how calm and patient the staff are all the time, it really does impress me.

My tuppence: the gardens at the back of 123 Grove Park are beautiful - I've been in a couple of times and it's a veritable forest - mostly untrodden by people, so a real haven for the kind of city wildlife that is fast running out of habitat in London. It's now rare to find such untouched spots in London. If the area behind 20/21 Grove Park is comparable, I hope it can be saved!

Haha!

I managed to avoid odd stares by pretending to retie my shoelaces when anyone walked past.

Obviously now everyone will know what I'm up to. Oh dear.

Good call.

It may sound...er... eccentric, but when I went out today I took a tiny pot of honey with me. And managed to save a forlorn looking honey bee! It was lying sluggishly on the pavement. I fed it a bit of honey, and watched it fly off, to buzz another day. Hurrah.

Inside the home is the only place I'd ever previously seen dead bumblebees... I guess that's why it's so weird and unsettling seeing this many of them locally. And it really does seem to be within a few streets - between the corner of Soames Street and the fork at Bellenden Road / Avondale Rise seems to be a hotspot for it, I haven't seen them anywhere else.

My bee knowledge is scant to say the least, but after a bit of googling it seems the one I saw earlier today (alive, then dead) might have been a queen - very big, black with an orangey-yellow end. Very beautiful actually, I was sorry to see it didn't survive.

DulwichFox Wrote:

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> I found one in my living-room , not dead but very

> 'drowsy' ???

>

> Took it outside and tried to feed with orange

> cordial. (Did not have any Honey which has worked

> before)

>

> He was there for hours. but was still alive. ???

> Just..

>

> Next time he was gone. ??

>

> So either flew off or was blown away. ??

>

> The Bee was very small. ??

>

> Fox.

Um.. I'm a little perplexed as to why this was moved to the lounge? I posted it on the main board because it's specific to the local area and I wondered if any gardeners around here might be able to shed some light on what's making the bees die (i.e. maybe someone's using something toxic in their garden?). If something is killing them off it's a bit worrying.

I don't know if anyone else has noticed this... over the past month or so, I've seen lots of dead bumblebees around the Bellenden Road area. Usually just dead on the pavement or in the road. I know the weather's been pretty unpleasant of late but I see them even on drier or finer days - and would the wet weather account for them all? I saw four dead ones on Soames Street today alone (well, 3 dead ones and one that was crawling along the ground looking somewhat confused.. when I passed again an hour later, the poor little critter was dead.)

Anyone else spotted this... any idea what might be causing it? A bit of googling suggests pesticides, illnesses among a colony, even mobile phone masts...!

It's quite upsetting. I like bees.

It's a nice street. I live there, and quite happily tell people I live in Peckham Rye; SE15 = NOT East Dulwich! Mind you, if you cross the railway tracks (over the bridge on Avondale Rise) you'll start hearing residents tell you you're in Camberwell... :)

Never had any trouble round here, and our neighbours are all lovely.

Boo. I like the bendy buses. As others have said, crowded as they are, at least you can usually get on. Overcrowded routes like the 12 (and the 453) are awful on doubledeckers and just result in angry passengers left at bus stops.

Agreed. A quick hello is fine but beyond that I'd rather be left to browse until I request some help (at which point, attentiveness is appreciated!)

(Also, that '78 bus route consultation' link above doesn't seem to work... it just opens a blank page?)

An extension to New Cross? Yes please.

A fine piece of writing, much of which I agree with, and a shame to see some of the cynical comments that have followed it. (If it's too long, don't read it, go and comment on something else. If you disagree, engage and talk about it, don't just dismiss it with a one-liner.)

People seem to be confusing 'explain' with 'excuse'. No-one's saying those kids were right or justified in what they did, but if we don't try and understand why, and do something about it, we will never stop it happening again! You can't just erase the people that make your lives difficult by sticking them in infinite prison cells forever.

Poverty and underprivilege has always resulted in violent unrest. It happened nearly 650 years ago in this city when a poor underclass demanded something different, and London was burned and looted and people were attacked and murdered. It has happened in various parts of the world many more times than my limited knowledge would allow me to document. When will people learn that you can squash one occurrence, but you will never stop it from happening again unless you address the ROOT CAUSES? Thugs aren't born, and these kids aren't mindless or plain stupid - something deeprooted caused the frenzy of the last few days, beyond the one documented trigger of Mark Duggan's death, and it's too simplistic to just call it unprovoked greed.