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Please be aware of someone who has scammed me for building work after posting a request for quotes here - I stupidly paid a deposit up front, against my better judgement, in order to get builders discount on some new doors- which I am having to pursue with my bank and possibly through civil court. Happy to share more info if anyone has been similarly contacted, but if homerefurbishments responds to any posts offering a quote for building work, do not respond - not a genuine contractor.

I need to replace my back french doors, and as I?ve had real problems with the current wooden doors I?m looking to replace with whole upvc frame and doors. Could anyone quote for the job? Thanks

I am looking to get my back french doors replaced, as quickly as possible. Can anyone help or recommend a local business that could help. I?ve been really struggling to even get a quote! Thanks

Hi, I am looking for someone to service and repair my gas fire, and have so far found no one despite trying many local leads and trying the 'find a tradesperson' search through Yell. Can anyone point me in right direction? Thanks.

Could anyone recommend someone who could fit a gas / electric cooker, or anyone here offer to quote? It's actually a temporary fix as I'm getting new kitchen next summer but my cooker packed in and I'm not sure whether fitting in a new one will be simple job (may need the electrics checked out. - I don't have the 'red switch' that AO and the like say you need in order to access their service so need some advice please. Thanks.

I find this thread troubling personally. As someone with two boys at the school I am genuinely at the end of my tether with such queries. I can't tell you how many times I have to hear "oh they're at Harris Boys? Is it ok?" *with a pained expression* Yes it is. As EDmummy has said you can't underestimate the effect for kids hearing that they're at the school no one else wants to go to. My kids are acutely aware of it. Some of their friends moved house or paid for expensive private education to avoid it. They can read forums like this, and they just hear what people say. It is openly expressed. I can give you plenty of positive feedback. I am just sick of having to do so.

Another big thumbs up for Glen, who came out late afternoon on New Year's Eve to sort out my broken fridge freezer. He was realy helpful over the phone, and charged exactly what he quoted in advance for call out plus labour, which was very reasonable, so was really pleased. Would highly recommend.

Another massive recommendation for Niko. Came out on a Sunday afternoon to fix a badly leaking tap, and his charges are very fair indeed. Really grateful to him. His no is 07818607583, but he was just off to get someone to fix his phone when he left here as there was a problem with it, so if you have difficulty getting hold of him immediately that may be why!

I need a whole kitchen refit, not got a 'grand designs' budget but equally can't cope trying to work out myself from IKEA kitchen planner, so really need someone to manage the process. Any recommendations of offers of quotes please? Thanks.

You should definitely not need to pay for basic (non cosmetic) dental treatment for a child. Others here have suggested good alternatives so you can get the right care ASAP , but I would complain to the dentist as this is unacceptable. If you aren't happy with their response you can complain to NHS England, as dentists most certainly shouldn't be advising parents that their child can't be treated by the NHS!

It is still very unlikely that having Aspergers would qualify a child for an EHC plan without other needs - Aspergers being a high functioning form of autism (my job means I am involved with the SEN reforms, and essentially having an EHC plan has replaced statements). My son has Aspergers and is at Harris Boys, as is his brother who doesn't, so I imagine I know rather more than MsMaz and her overheard negative experiences. Thanks for sharing those by the way, as such rumours are always really helpful. I am very happy to answer any questions if you want to PM me hpsaucey.

This is odd. I've never even considered this and have travelled abroad with my sons several times who have a different surname to mine. It's never been an issue for me - are you talking about very young children?

My teenagers have been unable to play Fifa. This has been discussed at the level of a national emergency. Their weekend has been RUINED.

Well it very much sounded like a comparison and it does raise my hackles because this is such an emotive area, and people are very quick and keen to make judgements about schools that they know virtually nothing about - in my experience the reputation of schools so easily rise and fall on the basis of a few Chinese whispers... Ok so my experience was there is no choice, as Curmudgeon has said - the whole process was pointless, and our only offer was HBAED. I didn't want a single sex school, but when there is no other option you have to get on with it. However I have been pretty impressed. One of my sons has Aspergers, and the support he has received has worked very well for him - certainly much better than primary school, and in particular they have been very responsive to some of his anxieties / obsessions. You generally don't know much about what goes on at secondary school, but both of my sons seem motivated, and while I wouldn't say they love school, I don't hear them complaining and they get up and out every morning without seeming unhappy or anxious, which is as much as you can hope for with 13 yr old boys! And yes, they also do dance and drama. While I feel sad they do not mix regularly with girls, certainly one of my boys is not at all bothered and says he prefers a boys school.

As someone with 2 sons at Harris Boys, I have to say I'm not at all comfortable with the phrase 'FH boys suitable for Gentler boys' ... Meaning?? All the rough ones end up at HBAED?

I'm looking for a quote to replace the rubber tiles on my bathroom floor please. If anyone can help please pm me. Thanks v much, HJQ

I've had a bathroom flooding incident which has brought down part of my kitchen ceiling. I'm looking for someone who could assess damage and give me a quote please. Not sure whether I will need to claim on insurance, suppose it depends on how much work it needs. Could anyone give a recommendation, or any plasterers / builders that could quote? Please feel free to PM me. Thanks very much, HJQ

It depends who it's for. I found 'Can I talk to you about Aspergers' great for my son (who's on the spectrum) in preparing for telling him I thought he had Aspergers and explaining why he was being asked to answer lots of questions and do tests... And he gave it to quite a few of his friends to read (good for kids over 7 I'd say, I can hand it on if useful to you). Would also echo recommendation for 'The reason i jump' but that was for me, in understanding why my son does things that I simply can't relate to. There are plenty of positive, helpful books out there - that aren't too clinical or mis lit - for people with ASD and those who love them - happy to give more suggestions if you pm me.

Can anyone recommend a hairdresser who could cope with cutting my son's hair? A few attempts visiting barber so far have been disastrous as he really struggles with it and I have managed to cut it myself so far, but now he's at secondary school I've really got to let him learn to deal with the trauma of haircuts! Any recommendations appreciated. Thanks.

A few months back a man 'offering to take your trolley back' in same car park actually tried to run off with mine before I'd finished unpacking - at first tried to claim he was working there and hadn't noticed there was still shopping in my trolley, then when I tried to get my trolley back was rude and threatening (he'd been drinking and was quite aggressive) before running off when I called for help. It wasn't helpful and he turned nasty quite quickly - so be aware. Reported to Sainsburys who were pretty nonchalant and said they were aware of the problem but didn't seem to do much about it.

As Penguin68 has already explained - ALL gps are privately managed. They have contracts with the NHS, but they are not NHS employees - all GP practices operate as private businesses.

Burbage isn't entirely correct. All PCTs need to commission one 'GP led health centre' which needs to be open 7 days a week, 8am to 8pm, and it is the Lister Hurley Practice that runs that service in Southwark. The 'walk -in' service they offer should be completely separate to the services they offer as a GP practice - and they haven't just decided to do it to 'monetarize nurses' - not even sure what that means, they would have won the tender to run that service. As with all other services - if it's not good enough, then personally I would always make my complaints known. There isn't a NHS walk-in centre in Southwark, and indeed there aren't in many London boroughs.

Thanks - have found out more now school open but had panic stricken children on a Sunday evening thinking they couldn't pay for their lunch with coins and I wasn't minded to rush out in my pyjamas to buy packed lunch fodder (of course sunday evening is when you think to tell your Mum these things...) Thanks C'mudge, they seem to be getting on ok... lets discuss over a vino soon.

Thanks Fuschia - the forms I filled in at the open evening in May this year were definately for a Nat West Smart account which were supposed to arrive in the post before term began, but I didn't receive any further details. The one card they have just has their name and the Harris logo - no clue how it is linked to any kind of account. I'll just need to take a detour on my way to work to find out.

So what is the deal with lunch money?? I filled out some forms in the summer for some 'smart money' cards - and one of my sons has been given some kind of ID card that he says is to pay for lunch - but no idea what to do with it! How do you load it with money? Do they take money in to load up card - doesn't that defeat object of not carrying cash? I'll probably need to try and get into the school early tomorrow to sort it out (only received card Friday and when I got in from work it was too late to call school and ask what you do with it) - now kids are worried they'll do yet another thing wrong as they seem to think they won't accept cash tomorrow. If anyone can help would be grateful - PMs welcome. Thanks. HJQ