good morning helen,thank you very much for getting back to me,i last saw the family in about 1977 i was in the navy and used to stay with them for the weekend and often went to football the name patrick sounds right to me,do you know him or where he lives would be good to get in touch after so many years my name is richard ward his mum jean was my dads cousin i live in suffolk have attached a pic of me and i am on facebook for my sins,if you know patrick could you possible pass this information on to him in any way many thanks for all your help richard