JB, by now you're probably wishing you'd never started this thread. What you need right now is the comfort, solace and reassurance of the older woman. Think of Anne Bancroft in The Graduate. You, Dustin Hoffmann, only better looking and taller. Well, now this dream may come true. Rumour has it, a gathering of East Dulwich's finest womanhood is meeting this Friday at 8.00pm at the Black Cherry...Cop-offwithanolderwoman.com Give them until 11.00pm, when they'll all be shit faced, just how you like 'em...;-)