I often think we have a tendency to make the individual out to somehow be selfish or inconsiderate for not thinking of the effect their actions may have on others. Yes, other people would be effected. That's secondary to the person at the heart of this. I'm not a psychologist so I'm not going to give an assessment on her probable frame of mind. I can only go on my personal experiences. I do believe a suicide attempt is a drastic action and for some it is a 'cry for help' and may be the final one. Whatever the outcome, I hope she finds happiness. Yuuna