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The Experiment: How friendly are we in East Dulwich??
mikki100 replied to mikki100's topic in General ED Issues / Gossip
It's been a few days and the response has been mixed. To keep it genuine I've sometimes said hi or simply smiled rather than saying good morning to every single person I've come across. Older people have been much more friendly and always respond, under 50s response has been mixed; some react to a smile while others suddenly become very interested in their shoes! I have to admit I did struggle at first and felt awkward doing it but now it's becoming natural and anticipating their response is fun. My neighbour several doors away who i've never spoken to started a conversation with me since I bumped into them over the weekend and said good evening... they're helping me fix my bike next weekend so the experiment continues -
My husband is from a country where it is natural to exchange pleasantries such "good morning", "good afternoon" and "good evening" or simply "hello" to strangers without being perceived as crazy, dodgy or a drunk! I'm a Londoner born and bred so am used to no eye contact or communication between strangers unless absolutely necessary. However I love East Dulwich community spirit and would like to think we are more friendly than most Londoners so I've decided to put it to the test and will say hello to anyone I come across in East Dulwich tomorrow.
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