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Thd bridge poster says 1:1 but I only noticed that after we had been several times

Beck spa is1:2

You will be 2 adults 3 children? We have been fine at the bridge

Try emailing dulwich again

The manager is Gary sharpe

Def not peckham

Can recommend thd pool at dulwich college if you join

Their sports club

Southwark council and lewisgham do some cheaper schemes

Bellingham Leisure centre too - can do half days

I think the 4m old developmental leap gets confused with hunger (hence why weaning is a temptation

Teething can also start

Have you read the wonder weeks?

It's not hunger, it's brain devt/changing sleep patterns

She will never go back to newborn sleep I'm afraid

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But theres a reason - because

> that's what works!

Good post anna!

Does little one have wind? Makes mine squirm...

8-6 possibly a bit late to bed for big one... mine were Ok with a 90 min nap till about 2.5, now if they sleep that long (in fact, at all, sob!) they don't go to bed well. But at 26m they were Ok napping till about 2.30.....

Early waking atm is the long days./light mornings I think

I think you can call kings private wing and ask who you can see

That's pretty much how I got sorted privately for my baby's Tongue tie

Many of the kings docs just work privately via that dept

My fourth baby wouldn't feed

It was just before Xmas so in the end I saw the Tongue tie doc privately and paid for the snip, about ?500 iirc

It usually requires two prime to confirm the tt and a wait if a couple of weeks

Our problem was never pain, it was a posterior tt and arched palate

After the snip it got worse before if got better - af one point hd was 100% on ebm but finally at 6w I could actually say he was s breastfed baby!

I would leave a few messAges if necessary at kings

Claire seemed to do her phone calls 7-8pm evenings!

When she was away someone else cLled me and left info on my phone

Hope Claire is back soon

She really is an expert

HVe you got. Breastfeedng pillow?How much do they sleep? 3m is about the time they drop the newborn sleep patterns and probably start to

Need helP to get to sleep

They may wll be over tired

As ?a rule of thumb 2 hours awake time is probably enough?

For state schools you apply for nursery when they are about 2 1/2 to the school and for reception the January before they are 4 via the lea

For nurseries aged 0 onwards you should go on waiting list ASAP, this prob involves a fee

Even if you don't wNt to use a nursery for z baby, you might wSnt a morning only place from 2

There are different nurseries catering for those things, in general

If yOu live near goodrich then that's the school you hVe most chNce if getting into

Brief might wakings are normal

I think for you to attribute it to teething Odin and use medication there needs to be more than that ... Yet you need to be certain there is no actual

Illness going on

If your baby is born in kings you could see them

Before you are discharged

You can

Probably insist on staying in until you are happy bf is established

I would def call them

Now and talk it through

What do you think your problems were last time? X

There is a small team

Of advisors at kings

Claire kedvers though I think she may be on sabbatical

And Joanne Joseph I think is the other

If you have cause to go to kings for any reason late in pregnancy you could visit them / they are directly above the Antenatal clinic

Or call them now for a chat

Obviously getting to kings with a newborn isn't so eAsy but they are the experts and can diagnose and refer for Tongue tie for eg

Only it has certainly had very serious failings in thd interim

Hopefully the high profile criticisms gave had an effect and standards are improving?

http://insidecroydon.wordpress.com/2011/04/28/mayday-damning-report-after-5-deaths-at-croydon-hospital/

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> The books I can recommend are :

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> The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo

> The Girl who played with fire

> The Girl who kicked the Hoynet's nest

> All by STIEG LARSON

> I have enjoy a lot reading this books

> And at the moment I am reading The " Power Of Now

But not for an 8 year old?!

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> by ECKHART TOLLE

Go for it if you really don't like mess

See what you think

It's very structured the way they give out little projects

You might like that approach or not

I think flowers then and a card

But is there anything useful you can do for her family?

A letter of condolence sharing happy memories, Fter she dies, is very comforting I think