hi i am a REAL anti gina fan - i cannot tell you how much it annoys me that women are not prepared to put their life on hold for a few years of their life for the sake of a 7pm clock off. It is such a shame that they cant just kick back and enjoy life even if the baby if awake at 9pm (god forbid). Most the time it is the mum doing it so that they can have time with their husbands in the evening - i am the only women to admit that their husband is a complete pain in the arse for the first year of the baby and that really the thought of having to spend more time arguing with him or having to give him attention is the last thing we women need ( don't get me wrong my husband is my best friend and my soul mate, but when a baby is born it is simply not his time). I now have three kids - 7, 8 and 2 and half . the youngest still has never slept a night yet and the others did when they got to about three - but i have so many amazing memories of my kids with me snuggled in the bed and now they are so independent and have their head in the DS or Wii - it does not last for long so please enjoy it.......please please forget the 12 hours sleep by 12 weeks - enjoy the babies and their company and try not to control the regimented structure of the day - chill and enjoy your beautiful baby and throw gina in the bin!!!