As I said before, I know the toothpaste exists, it was Y-mans attitude that I took exception to. Also, to clarify - when I referred to the OP - I meant Y-man and not the original poster of this thread. That's it - I'm out.........
It wasn't my intention to resurrect this thread, I was just appalled at the OP's stance, as Sean was. Santerme - it was my hair that was standing up - not Sean's.
My mother in law recently connected with her daughter that she had put up for adoption 60 years ago - my husband was thrilled to find out he had another sister and only wishes that he had known sooner! His mum had kept it a secret all these years - it was such a shameful thing in the 1940's. I agree with Brendan though..... see if you can find her first and then tell your brother. Good luck.