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Ha ha - I wake up (too bleeping early with a baby's finger shoved up my nose) almost every Saturday morning thinking:


"only two days until they're back at nursery..."


I know it's wrong...but I'm glad I'm not alone.


And totally agree with the 'let them make the decision thing'. We got through (well at least I hope we're through) with giving our eldest choices that didn't involve a 'yes'or 'no'. So... 'would you like to wear a skirt or dress today?', 'which bubble bath do you want?', 'pasta or rice?' (almost never get 'rice' though).


That + the naughty corner (which she gets to send us into too!!!) and reward charts seem to have done the trick. I do say that with crossed fingers behind my back, touching wood and holding my breath though.


Good luck xx

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Ah Pickle, that special way of parenting that only dads get away with. All is now clear!


ryedalema - we've only just realised benefit of giving a choice between 2 things rather than a question that requires a yes or no. Amazing what difference it has made!


Pebbles - how did you get on? It's still working for us - the last 2 days have been so much better!

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