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My Boyfriend Wakes Up In The Middle Of The Night Well Not Wakes Up But Shouts Stuff Out Like 'Tam Dont Move, Tam His There, TAM DONT MOVE' And His Always Looking In The Same Corner, Last Night He Sat Up And Was Having A Convo For About 20 Mins, Scares Me !!! Its Not Every Night Either, He Doesnt Remember Doing It, But His Seen A Ghost In The Past !!! Does Anyone Know What It Might Be ?? Posted By His Girlfriend As Im Worried
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It's a dysfunction of REM (dream wave) sleep. Instead of remaining recumbent in REM sleep, the brain is causing him to act out his dream. What he says or appears to see has nothing to do with you or anything in the room. It's happening in his head. Stress is often the cause of sleep disturbances. You can take a holistic approach and try something like acupuncture (Giles Davies at 15a Barry Road is very good) or hypnotherapy, or you can consult with a GP if you think there might be another medical condition relating to his sleep, eg nocturnal epilepsy (very rare). You could also keep a broom by the side of the bed. When he sits up, poke him the ribs with it until he wakes up. Then quickly hide the broom under the bed and pretend to be asleep yourself. ;-)

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