Jules-and-Boo Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 To the total POS who blocked my young teen on their way home and refused to let them pass while challenging them about their gender identity.Why the hell do you think it is your business how they identify and how dare you ask why they've "got tits".My husband would like to talk to you so please get in touch.More than that, you threatened to "slap" them even after they told you they are a minor.Described as tall, big, black and wearing a hoodie. Pity, as I would like to find you but that's not really a helpful description.We will be looking out for you though. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penguin68 Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 I think this would be better reported to the police than a social forum. It is clearly, as described, aggressive and threatening behaviour.However, I suspect that it is extremely unlikely that the alleged transgressor is a forum regular, or even reader, so addressing him through this forum is probably otiose. And your own words 'have a chat' can themselves be interpreted, in context, as threatening.I am clearly sorry that you child should have felt threatened and, I'm sure, frightened. But involving the authorities who can actually do something about this, if you haven't already, may be a far more productive move. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392650 Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCR53S Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 [EDIT] - cross posted with Penguin68. Share your sentiments exactlyI'm really sorry to hear about your kid's encounter last night @Jules-and-Boo. That's atrocious behaviour.Would suggest though that the perpetrator wouldn't be particularly forthcoming on The East Dulwich Forum about their actions... in the unlikely event they even use this site.I would suggest getting in touch with the police on 101 if you haven't yet; providing as much of a description of this person as your child remembers. Things like:- what their voice sounded like - The colour of their clothes- If it was clear, the person's genderAll could be useful in helping identify. CCTV may have also been present in the area.John Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392653 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jules-and-Boo Posted December 30, 2019 Author Share Posted December 30, 2019 yes we're asking about cctv from neighbours.I know they're not likely to read this and there is very little the police can do other than add to the statistics - I do think we need to know that there are threats on our roads. This was literally between the bus stop and our home and there was no one around at all - no traffic.I suppose the message for the forum is to be extra vigilant at all times.Having a chat with my husband isn't actually a threat, but he would like to have a conversation. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392655 Share on other sites More sharing options...
binkylilyput Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 So sorry this happened to your child Jules-and-Boo.I completely disagree with any suggestion that posting on here isn't a good idea. Who knows who reads this. Who knows who might have seen something. It might be helpful for someone if this happens again or maybe it has already happened to someone else previously.Reporting to the police should be done but probably useless- unless this person repeats this behaviour.Your poor child. I'm quite sure your husband would like to talk with the individual and I hope he gets chance. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392658 Share on other sites More sharing options...
prit Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 Penguin68 Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> ..your own words 'have> a chat' can themselves be interpreted, in context,> as threatening.> They could, but not by the police, they cannot interpret what someone says based on context.Sorry to hear about this J&B. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392661 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jules-and-Boo Posted December 30, 2019 Author Share Posted December 30, 2019 Thank you all.I'm sure your support will go some way to making my little one feel better.Jules Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392678 Share on other sites More sharing options...
binkylilyput Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 Do let them know there is a whole lot of love and support for them here in East Dulwich :-) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392701 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jules-and-Boo Posted December 30, 2019 Author Share Posted December 30, 2019 Thank you, I did and they were touched - it has made a big difference.It's a very important message that this is not acceptable and quite horrific (and not just mum saying that but people in our community too). Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392720 Share on other sites More sharing options...
heartblock Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 Sending you and your family love and support from an EDG resident. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392731 Share on other sites More sharing options...
J27 Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 Love and support from Upland Road as well :-) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392734 Share on other sites More sharing options...
hpsaucey Posted December 30, 2019 Share Posted December 30, 2019 And from over in nunhead. Hope your young'un recovers from this soon. Disgusting behaviour and hope the perp gets caught - must have been frightening for your child. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1392773 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lolamaxx Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 Ugh, would have given him a piece of my mind had I been around - hope your child is recovering; how stressful and offensive. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1393795 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkey Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 Also lots of love from Dunstans Road. Hope you find him. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/245134-hate-crime-ed-grove-last-night-10pm/#findComment-1393799 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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