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Thanks to all for the comments and advice.ย I have now reported the incident to the police.
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By eastdulwichimp · Posted
Thanks everyone for your comments, all of which Iโve taken something from. I originally posted to warn and help others learn from my experience โ hence the title, first and last words of the post. However, the process of posting and reading your comments has helped me better make sense of what felt โoffโ about the incident, why and what Iโd do differently next time. I hadnโt expected this outcome, so thank you.ย Itโs also yielded several โgolden nuggetโ insights, one of which I share here for others. For context, Iโm a longtime SE22 resident, who lives on a street with a primary school, so am used to scooting, cycling, walking with buggies, small children, pets etc. I like where I live and have never been struck on a pavement by anyone, on wheels or otherwise. Iโve been fortunate. When walking down Carlton Avenue towards Dulwich Village yesterday, I was on the left-hand side of the pavement but โ โgolden nuggetโ approaching โ not as close to peopleโs front garden walls as I could have been. The cyclist came from behind and overtook on the inside i.e. passed between me and the wall. The gap was too narrow and he hit my leg. For clarity, my original post was about the lack of adult supervision of a child. Thereโs been much comment here about the cyclistโs age. I didnโt know he was 4, until his father told me. I felt that this was a tactic โ along with telling me I was over-reacting, talking about intent, apologising undercut with โbutโ and laughing โ to downplay and avoid taking responsibility for his part in the situation. But I accept that is my perception, readers werenโt there and may think differently. What also felt โoffโ is that the father didnโt see what happened or ask any questions to find out. What happened? Where did he hit you? How hard? Are you alright? Is my son alright? Is everyone alright? This sounds obvious but wasnโt to me until last night. Back to age. Is the age of the cyclist important? If you consider it from the perspective of a four-year-old, it might be. Heโs on his bike, helmet on, speeding along, sees a gap and thinks he can get through it. He doesnโt know and/or may never have been told about the risks (to himself and others) of undertaking on the left. Hits pedestrian. I was not expecting to be hit from behind or the undertaking. But had I walked closer to the wall โ and not left a potentially inviting gap โ this probably wouldnโt have happened. This is just one โgolden nuggetโ I will take away. Itโs something I can easily do, doesnโt depend on anyone else doing anything differently, and could contribute towards keeping myself and others safe. All in all, posting here has been unexpectedly useful for me. I hope for others, too. I feel able to move forward with learnings, so thank you guys. -
By Dogkennelhillbilly · Posted
Scorpio Dry Cleaners (in the parade of shops at the top of Herne Hill) has closed. The shopfront is being renovated and will be reopened as therapy rooms by Herne Hill Space.ย I take this as evidence that we're all more stressed than before, despite being more casually dressed... -
They do often have very small turning circles (is that the correct term?)ย though. Many many moons ago I won a very long Volvo estate car. It could get into a space not much longer than itself, whichย was impressive!
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