when a ring is an engagement ring?

[pato]

I see what You both mean...

KalamityKel I see your point and trust me if i say i don t look or sound pervy ( i see what you mean though) and generally I probably would not dare to ask straight away if someone is single.....unless there are huge signs she is not (like a ring on the left hand for instance)

on the other hand i see also Red Devil s point...surely some of them will be happy to show it off..but Finally I agree with Whattajoke...Whats wrong with asking someone if they are single?

...to have a laugh all together i must confess i have been on a date with a very distinctive Young woman(33yo) when i first moved to ED ...

As she asked me (before I managed to get over the first pint) How Much do I earn per year and if i own a house in London....I assume i can ask them if they are single!!;) :) :)

(HOPE YOU READING THIS KATY!!!):)

Wishing all of You a lovely we! Thanx for writing..

[Kaa]

I wish you luck Pato, shy is not a bad thing, lack of tact and being borring are much worse :-)

[binkylilyput]

Go ahead, chat to a girl, then when it seems like a good time, check out if they are single and do so with a smile.

Given that single girls raise the same problems as you do then why not go for it?

I think many ladies these days find it refreshing when a man is brave enough to ask them out.

Whether she is single or not I can't see that anyone would be offended by a guy taking a shine to them. And if they do take offence then they aren't someone you should worry about! 😉

[KalamityKel]

I don't like being asked if I'm single... there are other ways of addressing the burning Q. Asking such a Q just makes me think "oh dear here we go". Think I'd prefer the get right in there approach - if you wanna ask someone out just do it. Doesn't matter whether they've single or not surely!

[pato]

..little updating..

I don t think anymore that it will be any useful for me to know about their rings..

..It wouldn t matter anyway if I knew by watching at their hands if they are single or not..

I just need to accept that sometimes (not always ) i am too shy..

\..Yesterday went to the gym where I saw a beautiful blonde blue eyes girl.. and i really fancy her..

...we have been looking at each other in a kind of flirty way for all the time i was at the gym and I noticed she had no rings..

I saw her also sunday before last one and we smiled at each other in a few occasions but still... I wasn t "brave" enough to say something to her...:(

I think i m just very bad :).. with or without ring..

...

[pato]

I wish i read your posts before going to the gym yesterday ...(@KAA/BINKYLILYPUT/KALAMITYKEL)

very refreshing! Thanx

[Bob Buzzard]

I got a bespoke jeweler in Clerkenwell to make a plain platinum ring with a single sapphire for my wife's engagement ring - it still looks good 15 years down the line.

[bimum]

Jesus chist pato !!! Im laughing out loud while reading this....!

[KalamityKel]

Was there any further development on this? *being nosey*

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Bob Buzzard Wrote:

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> I got a bespoke jeweler in Clerkenwell to make a

> plain platinum ring with a single sapphire for my

> wife's engagement ring - it still looks good 15

> years down the line.

Your wife or the ring?

[Earl Aelfheah]

LOL