RosieH Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Alan Medic Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > RosieH Wrote: > > > > > "Lady" is a loaded term - it implies > gentility, > > > refinement, delicacy - it comes with a whole > > set > > > of messages that piss women off because men > > aren't > > > subjected to the same set of expectations. > > > > 'Loaded term' my elbo. Only in your head. > Strange > > creatures as *Bob* said. > > Only in my head? And Asset's? And Katienumbers'? > And every other woman who dislikes it. > > You're right, you're right, of course you are. > Silly old me, to try to tell a man what it is to > be a woman, when of course he knows best. (of > course, the OED definition was probably written by > a silly little woman who didn't know what's what > either). > > You know how a St George's Cross is sometimes seen > as a sign of racism? That's all in my head too of > course! What a dolt I've been. What a clever > chap you are, with what a sound grounding in > semiotics. > If you argue Rosie, that men can't possibly know what is going on inside a woman's head (which I would 100% agree with), by the same token you can't argue that you know what is going on inside a man's head who uses the term 'Lady'.