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Charlie, thanks for the reply. I think the concern would be that since closing hours will now be in excess of what I believe was agreed, will this also mean that delivery hours are extended beyond what was agreed?

Doesn't this constitute some sort of trespass and criminal damage to property? Signalto that is awful, I feel very sorry for you.

Yes please report to police with fullest description of dogs and owner possible. BTW, just so you know and can tell the police, since they are not always clued up themselves, whoever was handling the dogs at the time is culpaable in law because they have care and responsibility of the animals at that moment. Both that person/s and the actual owner can be prosecuted. I do so hope the police follow up on this.

Charlie, Oh, so they are going to be selling alcohol after all. I recall someone asking about this months ago and being advised alcohol would not be sold. How will this now affect the opening and operating hours..especially at weekends, will these be extended beyond what was agreed in the earlier application? Does this mean M&S can stay open 8 am until 12 pm every day if the week, including weekends?

Chazzle, that appears to be a familiar pattern and one S'wark planning shoukd be taken to task on, whether accidental incompetence or no.

Perhaps Renata should go straight to S'wark building control and dig out all the records on this build, surely the simplest way to find out what was and what was not signed off? If I have understood, the Councillor has known about this major issue for at least two months. I am not sure why it was necessary to repeat the fact that some residents 'might' be using this as an opportunity to upgrade- a bit of a red herring that.

Well, looking at the plans I'd think it is bound to be a chain coffee store or fast food outlet. It is currently proposed at 3 stories but judging by the whole M&S saga I can imagine further applications for another storey. We are promised high quality, area enhancing architecture beautifully finished in brick facing to " blend" in with the orginal and topped with UPVc white windows. Mmmmm. Wonder what will happen to all those currently living above the current premises?

On a different tack, the land given over to the medical centre seems small by comparison. Given recent reports there are between 1200 and 1700 heads per local GP, one wonders if enough thought has been given to this aspect? Our population is growing, hence the need for more schools but that also creates a demand for medical facilities.

As others have suggested, put crate by your bed, that way he knows you are close. If you force him to cry it out in a locked crate downstairs you risk him panicking and this could lead to other problems. Other option is you sleep downstairs for some of time until he is settled. Leave smelly t-shirt in with him.

Check to see if neighbours have extended or have had loft conversions. If not, and depending how close they are,you may experience a significant change in light if they build later- especially if you are looking at a mid terrace.

Yes, if he is a sex pest and tries to fight with every intact male he meets that might be reason to castrate young but many dogs having got through the terrible teens can be fine left well alone. Additionally, less confident males can be made fearful as the sudden big drop in testosterone after castration increases anxiety.

My advice research thoroughly and speak to your breeder. Neutering to early can affect growth and some dogs never grow up mentally, meaning they act inappropriately around other dogs. If he is sensitive or in any way slightly anxious wait a while. I'd talk to your breeder.

Leviathan, I've heard a few tales like yours where a charm offensive is mounted to get the result that is wanted but when the boot is on the other foot it is a different story.

James, TheM&S build seems to be getting larger and larger. My understanding was the ground floor would be extended and then the three floors maintained in their existing space and footprint (possibly with 4th floor penthouses above) but large sections of the ground floor. Now seem to be two stories high. Have you visited this site recently and seen how the build is progressin? I'd be interested to know if the build is of the dimensions you expected from the plans?

The document appears to be up now.

Renata, Not directly money making but obliquely, once CPZ is mooted as a result of losing so many parking spaces.

Aside from maxing out on one's legal rights, affluent young professionals also have a choice in terms of the degree to which they extend their homes- that choice may involve considering the impact on their neighbour and perhaps even modifying and scaling back their plans. Choosing to exercise that consideration is also an indication that good will works both ways.

LM ditto.

SM, thanks for that. Have to say some elderly neighbours had what sounds to be a similar experience of a loft and wrap around conversion double whammy and they found the new wall very oppressive and, indeed, it took a lot of their light. I think the experience was pretty rough on them and it seened that little consideration was given to the impact on them. I've said it before, but the current thrust to extend, if not about pure added value as investment, is as much about gaining light airy wow factor rooms as it is about needing more space. This would be fine were it not for the fact that where terraced houses are concerned extending to gain light often means taking light from your neighbour. Also fine if your neighbour has the desire and financial means to extend, but if not I can see how it could be experienced as a massive imposition.

Soyamocha, Going back to a much earlier post I am unclear how far the new structure at its widest point will be from yours? If I have understood they want to build up to the boundary but not on it? If it is a party wall structure I would think you would have a say in the finish your side. Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > To Worldwiser > > Thanks for that. > > We are not inclined to do the extension ourselves > because we only put in a brand new kitchen last > year. In addition, unlike our neighbours, we will > be in occupation - they are living elsewhere, so > you can imagine what having that work going on in > our house would be like and living in the > property. We cannot move elsewhere we have way > too much stuff. > > The measurements on your planning permission are > about what we would hope to negotiate. Unless > the wall straddles our > property, we will not be able to touch it, paint > it, hang anything on it etc. We did try and > console ourselves that we could paint it white and > make is appear lighter but that would appear to be > out of the question. > > The reason I would like my own surveyor is that he > will be acting for me and me alone. When I call > him, he will call me back first not the other > party. Obviously I don't want them to hate me > but I am not feeling the love for them right now. > > > To be honest, we will have endure months of > builders, noise, disruption, moving our three full > sheds, paperwork, calls, emails, dirt, dust, lack > of privacy, lack of security and possible damage > because we have quite a old pipes in that area > under the paving - all to eventually end up with a > brick wall right outside our kitchen window and an > additional 40cm of brick is quite a bit when it is > directly in your face. If all they have to do is > find ?1k, I don't think that is much to ask.

Yesterday I was assured by one of the staff that they are definitely not closing.

In my experience Brickhouse too clinical, Cafe Jade LL similarly characterless and, in my experience, indifferent service.

SueJ, Please let us know how your dog is and please see a vet.

SueJ, Thanks for reporting this. If you have not already please get your dog checked at vet. Puncture bites to neck can be more serious than they seem. Please also report to police. A smaller dog might be killed, a person or child could get in the way and be injured. I hope you and your dog are okay.

Alex K, Well I embarassed to say that I do see your point, made me chuckle. However, I am genuinely perplexed as I cannot recall a really poor experience. Also was not aware of the ban...when was that? Anyhow, I am now thinking I either have very poor taste in coffee and cakes or gave just been very lucky. Met owner only once and she was also pleasant too.