I agree with Kel, especially "Many avoid the options available by ignoring the "problem" and by the time theyve plucked up the courage to talk to anyone about it it's too late." 1n 1 case i know very well she did the test, told friends, sisters, but not parents. Basically by the time she was talking to her parents she had already discussed it at length with friends and decided to keep it. so really whatever the parents said she just wasnt taking it in. friends and sisters of same age really dont have any idea that 'having a baby' means 'having a child and spending the next 20 years putting their needs first' as a teenager it's very difficult to visualise the future. teenagers live in the moment, and whatever you teach them about sex, which I don't think we do adequately, they also have to try and understand responsibility, and action= consequence. some people never understand that properly though!