My opinion is one thing, but I have the feeling the general populace, members of the clerge included, have insurmountable reservations regarding accepting the holly matrimony, or maybe it should be called patrimony in the case of male same sex partners. One solution would be to dissociate the word Marriage from Holly Matrimony or Allah or Zarathoustra and accept that you can be married without having taken a sacred oath before the Gods of men. Howzabout that?