JustG

Reading all your stories and ideas on how to get the most out of life has made me feel much more positive! Hopefully others got something out of it too. Many, many wise people in East Dulwich. Thanks! I shall drink, laugh, dance (badly) and be less self conscious :)-D

Happy birthday Karter! Honesty like that without a drink is to be applauded. Took a few sav blancs for me to put pen to paper - so to speak. Nice to hear that I am not the only one wondering what I'm meant to be doing. The funny thing is - I don't really feel a pull in any direction whatsoever yet. Not hankering after babies, marriage, travel, promotion, to be a size 0, to be a millionaire etc. Still feel like I did at 16 - main interests being boys (obviously men now, otherwise that would just be pervy), independence, alcohol, parties and shoes. Obviously I do have a job now, but definitley work to live.

OK, a bit of a Carrie Bradshaw moment... Is it so unusual to be thirtysomething and not really know what you are meant to be doing with your life??? After mucho vino and conversation I am wondering...cos I meet a lot of twentysomethings that seem to have it all sorted: the purpose, the look, the career, the homelife, the lovelife etc. Am I the only thirtysomething that still doesn't feel grown up? A bit of an imposter?