Happy birthday Karter! Honesty like that without a drink is to be applauded. Took a few sav blancs for me to put pen to paper - so to speak. Nice to hear that I am not the only one wondering what I'm meant to be doing. The funny thing is - I don't really feel a pull in any direction whatsoever yet. Not hankering after babies, marriage, travel, promotion, to be a size 0, to be a millionaire etc. Still feel like I did at 16 - main interests being boys (obviously men now, otherwise that would just be pervy), independence, alcohol, parties and shoes. Obviously I do have a job now, but definitley work to live.