Please Help me - Bereavement counselling help, Feeling Lonely and Depressed, Free Help Please

[dbboy]

Many suggestions have been made on ways in which help can be got and people have tried meeting with you. As I have previously explained I feel for you having had a similar loss, However you may find that people on this forum do not feel capable of meeting and discussing bereavement as it may well bring back their own pain that they have worked through themselves. I hope you can see that, please try some of the groups that have been mentioned to help you move on or seek professional help initially through your GP. Delaying this will only further extend the period you grieve for.

Everyone copes with bereavement in different ways, if as you say you are finding it hard to cope and boy it can be really hard, then please seek some of the help mentioned earlier in this thread so you can try to move on and get your life back together, if you don't the pain will only continue to eat away inside and ultimately make you ill.

[lavender27]

Natty01295

Find someone that really cares, as I have experience with talking to neighbours and friends who don't give a fig, and have had to bottle it. I've lost friends because of it. Counselling helps short term, as they only offer short sessions, on their terms.

I hope you're doing alright and getting out and about.

The sadness may not go away, but it can be managed.

All the best

Lav27

[natty01295]

Yes I do get out and about a lot it helps me

[lavender27]

That's goood

[andersa7]

Hi Natty, Don't know if I am too late to follow this thread but just seen it. I lost my mum in October 2017 and I am also struggling to cope, can you PM me please

[natty01295]

It's not Easy to cope I find coping very difficult

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[dbboy]

andersa7 - have a look at some of the early posts on this thread, they maybe useful.