ClareC Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > If a person is offended the result is the same > whether offence was intended or not. Once that > offence is realised, on the basis it was not > intended, then it can be rectified. Failure to do > so would imply the interpretation is correct. > > The problem with the written word is it can easily > be interpreted in a way that was not necesarily > intended. I don't see why, in the case of this subject, all parents should feel criticised. I don't think anybody here has criticised ALL parents. If they have, they're an idiot. As I said before, common EDF misconception, which implies that it is taboo to make any comment on how the behaviour of some impacts on others.