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Hi BeadyBoo, I posted a similar thread recently and have had some great feedback on Stillness: http://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/forum/read.php?29,1113522,1116952#msg-1116952 I've also recently visited and had a tour of the school and was very impressed. Please feel free to PM if you would like more details.

Volunteers found for Saturday! Thank you!

Your reply has just made my day, Maxxi! Thank you for sharing:-)

I am a Career and Business Coach who will be participating in a Relationship Systems training workshop next weekend (21st to 23rd June). It requires that I coach a partnership (couple, business partners, friends, siblings etc) on the Saturday night (ideally 8.30pm). Relationship coaching is based on the premise that the Relationship is the third entity ? I don?t coach any individual, but rather the Relationship ? and that the Relationship has needs and desires of its own, separate from the individuals. ?Why don?t you do things my way?? ?Why don?t you value what I value?? ?Why don?t you approach problems the way I do?? ?Why can?t you be more like me?? If you are aware of this kind of thinking in your relationship/partnership, you?ll appreciate the simple and elegant tool this session will provide for moving beyond that place. This 45-min telephone, Skype or F2F (in ED and/or surrounding areas) coaching session will allow participants to develop an awareness of the diversity and differences which the individuals bring to the relationship and proactively create from these differences, while flexing their empathic abilities. If interested, please send me a PM or get in touch via my website: www.objcoaching.com Thank you

Dr Gottman's analysis of wedded couples' likelihood of getting divorced or not says that the single biggest determinant is the ratio of positive to negative comments the partners make to one another. The results are fascinating! What do you think the optimal ratio he discovered is? Take my Facebook poll and please like my page when you visit: https://www.facebook.com/OBJCoaching

Thanks for the link, Supergolden88. Twitter can get pretty addictive, can't it! I must admit most blogs I visit are via twitter. It's a great one for flagging blogs. Ahh...that very common challenge freelancers face. Good thing you have a cat to talk to:-)I hope you also join some of the local networking events. Nothing beats getting out and about, where possible!

Enjoying reading your blogs! Who's driving traffic to their blogs via Twitter? Would love to follow. Just came across an interesting article '5 Reasons To Tweet Before You Blog' and it made me think of this thread: http://www.jeffbullas.com/2010/10/13/5-reasons-to-tweet-before-you-blog/ See you on Twitter: https://twitter.com/objcoaching Blog link to follow soon!

Kes, well done for starting and motivating me to do same. Planned to start on 1st June too but in Center Parcs for the weekend. Will get started when I'm back home. Can't wait!:-)

Hi Roopa, I highly recommend Oaktree Nursery on Boveney Avenue. Pls send me a PM if you would like detailed info. Best wishes, BC

Glad to hear you've looked around and loved it, born&brED. We have to make a decision this week and I haven't had a chance to view it and can't view this week as it's half-term:-o My eldest is also due to join reception in Sept 2014. How time flies!

Ahhh...Jollybaby: I'm still suffering from separation anxiety! Mr BC's attachment to scooting to work (or should I say, avoiding public transport) means we need to be closer to the City. Regardless, who knows what'll happen in a few years;-)

Loving the blogs, ladies! Following on twitter too (objcoaching)! Kes: love the science bits! I'm also a Scientist but non-practising. Still love to dip in though hence the attraction to your blogs. Pebbles: I couldn't find you with new twitter name:-o Off to start Day #1 of 30-day blog challenge!

Thank you all so much for taking the time to post and for your PMs. Here's summary of my lessons learnt: - Move if there are other benefits (such as moving to better accommodation, from renting to buying etc.), not just for 'right' primary school as a school's position on League Tables, Ofsted rating etc. can change (for various reasons including but not limited to change of Heads, which is totally unpredictable) - Moving to get into school and then moving back is more hassle than it's worth, plus can be unsettling for kids (as most kids build a network in the local community and unfair to uproot them again, particularly as they get to adjust to new school, new friend etc.) - Consider secondary schools in the area you're moving to, if you plan to stay long-term - Don't rely on ratings, league tables etc. for choosing the 'right' (whatever that is for you) primary school! Make sure you visit first and make up your mind about what is right for your children before you make a decision - If possible, rent first and get a feel for the area before committing long term (buying) - And one from me, don't underestimate the value/power of EDF. Would miss it too much if we moved:-) Thanks again everyone and enjoy the rest of your weekend!

It's on my list of things to do for my business. Someone recommended a really good blogging challenge book which I intend to use when I get round to it. It's called the 30 Day Blogging Challenge, Kickstart your Blogging by Nikki Pilkington. It's ?4.55 on amazon and has great feedback: http://www.amazon.co.uk/30-Day-Blogging-Challenge-ebook/dp/B00563SEKE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1369387152&sr=8-1&keywords=30+day+blogging+challenge It suggests a topic ever day (e.g. Day 1 - something topical, Day 2 - top tips, Day 3 - end your blog with a question, request etc). This has prompted me to kickstart mine again so I'm moving up my list:-)

How common is this? I would love to hear from parents who have made the move. Any regrets? Any tips/ideas? Thanks

Thanks Vez. That's very reassuring. I've also heard back from a couple of parents who are happy with the school. My little one will also be in reception next year which is why we're starting to think of schools. I will also post on SE23. Thanks again

Considering moving close to Stillness Infant School in Forest Hill/Honor Oak and would appreciate any feedback from parents of children there. Ofsted rating is outstanding and KS2 results are great - but I know from experience (mine and others) that nothing beats feedback/recommendations from parents. Many thanks, BC

I highly recommend Beauty Plus on Firest Hill Road.

I highly recommend Mothers Inc on Forest Hill Road. Best Swedish massage I've had in years. They really take their time with the consultation and tailor the massage to your needs.

All slots taken. Thanks for your PMs.

I have had to reschedule a training programme which was due to take place on Monday and would like to offer free 45-minute coaching (telephone/Skype for those not based in ED/nearby) sessions to anyone who is looking to make a significant change in their career/business/relationship/any area of their life where they feel stuck. It's an opportunity for me to build up my coaching hours which is a requirement for my advanced certification and your feedback on the session is always greatly valued. You will not need to prepare anything in advance although you will get the most benefit from the session if you come with a goal (whatever that may be) in mind. For more information on me, coaching and for client testimonials, please visit my website: www.objcoaching.com If interested, please get in touch via my website or by sending me a pm.

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Sorry for not posting earlier. I did get lots of feedback and my daughter has been there for a few months. We absolutely love it there and are really happy we made the move. Happy to provide more detailed information, if needed. Best wishes, BC

Hello everyone, I work as a coach and will be on a 'relationship systems intelligence' coaching course next week and my homework is to coach two individuals currently in a relationship (on Tuesday night, anytime after 8pm). It could be two siblings, friends, a couple, business partners or colleagues-as long as they have an existing relationship. You will not need to prepare anything in advance although you can think of a topic you would like to explore. Any volunteers or know anyone who might be interested? Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks, BC

Hello everyone, I work as a coach and will be on a 'relationship systems intelligence' coaching course next week and my homework is to coach two individuals currently in a relationship (on Tuesday night, anytime after 8pm). It could be two siblings, friends, a couple, business partners or colleagues-as long as they have an existing relationship. You will not need to prepare anything in advance although you can think of a topic you would like to explore. Any volunteers or know anyone who might be interested? Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks, BC