Ok MsSS40 you have had an hour so let me do the honours: Just in case there is anyone out there who doubts my integrity, including yourself: 1 - you sent me the first PM, commenting how I seem like a friendly kind of guy. Fact: friendly is all I am and all I ever will be to anyone on here, unless of course they pee me off by writing crap about me.. Then you can guarantee a reaction. 2 - I have never stalked, never stalk and hopefully never will feel the need. As a mid-30 something, of sound enough mind and in a very happy, fulfilling 14 year relationship, it ain't me who is on the prowl. If this is your style it's little wonder you are on your own.. Get a life ffs