In a dilemna, bumped into my ex who since leaving me has turned into Mr F***** wonderful, tarted himself up, looks hot, works regularly (would not have been an ex had he done all that when he was with me in the first place! doh!) but unfortunately he is currently spoken for and in quite a serious relationship now. I'm not one for stepping on other's people's turf but he is the father of my kids, but I'm lonely and don't get out often, lack of minders etc. so am finding it hard to meet people, the other week I caught him checking me out, (could have been my imagination though ha) so can't really be that serious about girlfriend, but is it possible to just have a kind of one off, especially when you are feeling so frustrated, in fact think my hymman has grown back! (sorry to be crude) maybe I could just borrow him for a bit without the resounding feelings of guilt or disappointment I feel would come hurtling down on me, would it make me a bad person? Or should I wait until their relationship fizzles out then make a move? What if he reverts to being Mr Sofa Hugger again? Maybe she is doing something for him I'm not which is why he changed? God knows sorry seriously personal and pathetic thread I know. But my first so please forgive me.