Monica, don't be put off by posting on here or anywhere else in The Lounge for that matter. I think you'll find that the "witty persona" Dulwichmum adopts is what makes her popular on here but when on the rare occasion she steps out of that character then the real person underneath is revealed, which turns out from her postings on this thread isn't so nice after all. Having said that I can fully understand her anger if DM or any other members of her family have been subjected to such abuse but she certainly hasn't done herself any favours on this thread by some of her remarks. Hence the deletion of her earlier "vicious" posts which I'm sure she isn't too proud of.