Jump to content

Recommended Posts

If you are talking about accidental pregnancy then one solution is to scare the bejesus out of them with the very real threat of AIDS. And make condoms freely available at all clinics, hospitals and GP surgeries. In a basket out front don?t make the poor buggers have to go and ask for them.


A while ago I was speaking to my brother about this. He is 16 years older than me but went to the same school in the same small, not very affluent town, and in his final 2 years of school at least 6 girls in his year left because they were pregnant. In mine there was only 1 and there were a lot more people at the school when I went there. I put it down to the fact that In South Africa in the 90s we were given free condoms and were shit scared of AIDS.

KalamityKel Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> one would also need to b careful not to b blinded

> on the scale of said debate.


Does this imply that you think Britain havin gthe highest level of teenage pregnancy in Europe is actually not much of a problem?

"the choice to have unprotected sex"


..and we're pretty much back to the question first raised as to why this is happening.


The science of economics assumes a perfectly eduacted and perfectly rational populace, neither of which, we all know, exist.

Hence why economists are basically glorified guessers.


I'm not getting drawn closer to the flame again, but I'll leave it at few, if any of us qualify to be studied by economists.

So why on earth do you think mixed up, often genuinely ignorant teenagers are making rational choices?

King's Fund did some reasearch into effectiveness of big scare tactics campaigns on health i.e. smoking campaigns, AIDS awareness, anti drug and found that these campaigns were limited in their effectiveness. Mainly because often people rationalise that this won't happen to them - look for example at smoking. It should be a perfectly rational decision not to smoke - the long-term impact on your health is clear and is spelt out on every cigarette package. But how many people continue to smoke knowing the risks involved?? We all like to think that it is someone else who will get lung cancer, not us!!


Young people in particular have a sense of invulnerablity - and often feel like they won't be the unlucky ones to get AIDS, AIDS is still seen as a disease other people get not me. However, what workers who work directly with teenage boys think is quite effective is to show them medical photos of penises that have been effected by an STI!! This often has the desired effect as the boy goes - yuck, I don't want that to happen to me and my bits!!

Well on that note Scruffy, what do you think of America's approach with the screaming crying lifelike babies they give to teenagers to try and deter them from having babies young? has the teenager pregnancy ratio dropped in America or did they have any impact at all? was just wondering.
Well, I was talking to an outreach worker who has used some of these dolls in London schools and he said the jury was still out on their effectivenss or not. We had some of them around the office and they are very lifelike and cute (when not screaming). He felt that the problem is when they aren't screaming they are very cute and the girls like cuddling them so he thought it might actually have the opposite effect!

Lol! Trust the Americans to overdo it!


And that is just sooo like them, (sorry just called to mind the many sketches and exchanges between the American Guy played by Kevin Kline and John Cleese and Michael Palin in "A fish called Wanda" :)


Sorry completely off topic!

In contrast to even 20 years ago, there is almost no moral dissaproval - probably a good thing but not without its consequences on behaviour

Plus some rational economic reasons for doing it among those groups (who despite what someone said earlier) that are much more likely to be teenage mums (the poor and uneducated).

Plus children give a great deal of meaning to your life whatever class, creed, race etc you are so if you have little aspirations or can't see opportunities to fullfill them, a child can help your sense of worth.

Plus in some areas it's almost 'normal' behaviour so peer pressure

???? Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------


> Plus children give a great deal of meaning to your

> life whatever class, creed, race etc you are so if

> you have little aspirations or can't see

> opportunities to fullfill them, a child can help

> your sense of worth.


This is spot on.

The other (less generous) of the same point is that it gives those people who can't be bovvered the perfect excuse not to be bovvered on a more long term basis.

"Yeah I did have all these big plans, but I'm going to be a Mum now so I guess I just won't have the chance to see if I could make them work."

So, does the system encourage/discourage teen pregnancies? I would have to say ......it does both. On one hand it provides a safety net for teens who have genuinely found themselves in a difficult position, with no extended family to help them, and helps them get back on their feet. On the other, it allows teens to leave home, get a flat, become mothers, reap the benefits of the system without a stigma attached. What is best for the baby? Did I summarise this accurately? I am not trying to be harsh, but I think teens need to have both sides of the picture clearly explained to them before they make a decsion. As parents, do we do that?

Spot on Gerry, totally agree with you, while there has to be a safety net to help out those in genuine need and those who are more vulnerable in our society, there are way more people taking advantage of it. Just to slightly come off subject but the same sort of thing, it is the same with immigration. There are those who are genuinely vulnerable and who are real genuine asylum seekers who need as much help and assistance as they can get, but there are also an awful lot of illegal immigrants and fake asylum seekers who take advantage of that same system and who come here more as economic migrants as they see it as being a better way of life here.


(heads for the hills, ducks down with shield in place over head for barrage of abuse about to fly for mentioning the "I" word!)

I'm not even going to comment on the money drain on everyone at every level in every country of the world, that all heads up towards the bastards at the top, where they all sit on their fat greedy arses, getting richer and richer while laughing their tits off and watching the plebs tear each other appart over the remaining dwindling resources.

???? said "Plus children give a great deal of meaning to your life whatever class, creed, race etc you are so if you have little aspirations or can't see opportunities to fullfill them, a child can help your sense of worth."


???? you have summed it up concisely. I was going to use the simple word "love" to explain teenage pregnancy. When I look into the eyes of my two little boys and am filled with joy, I can understand the urge for anyone to have a child.

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Latest Discussions

    • I've never got Christmas pudding. The only times I've managed to make it vaguely acceptable to people is thus: Buy a really tiny one when it's remaindered in Tesco's. They confound carbon dating, so the yellow labelled stuff at 75% off on Boxing Day will keep you going for years. Chop it up and soak it in Stones Ginger Wine and left over Scotch. Mix it in with a decent vanilla ice cream. It's like a festive Rum 'n' Raisin. Or: Stick a couple in a demijohn of Aldi vodka and serve it to guests, accompanied by 'The Party's Over' by Johnny Mathis when people simply won't leave your flat.
    • Not miserable at all! I feel the same and also want to complain to the council but not sure who or where best to aim it at? I have flagged it with our local MP and one Southwark councillor previously but only verbally when discussing other things and didn’t get anywhere other than them agreeing it was very frustrating etc. but would love to do something on paper. I think they’ve been pretty much every night for the last couple of weeks and my cat is hating it! As am I !
    • That is also a Young's pub, like The Cherry Tree. However fantastic the menu looks, you might want to ask exactly who will cook the food on the day, and how. Also, if  there is Christmas pudding on the menu, you might want to ask how that will be cooked, and whether it will look and/or taste anything like the Christmas puddings you have had in the past.
    • This reminds me of a situation a few years ago when a mate's Dad was coming down and fancied Franklin's for Christmas Day. He'd been there once, in September, and loved it. Obviously, they're far too tuned in to do it, so having looked around, £100 per head was pretty standard for fairly average pubs around here. That is ridiculous. I'd go with Penguin's idea; one of the best Christmas Day lunches I've ever had was at the Lahore Kebab House in Whitechapel. And it was BYO. After a couple of Guinness outside Franklin's, we decided £100 for four people was the absolute maximum, but it had to be done in the style of Franklin's and sourced within walking distance of The Gowlett. All the supermarkets knock themselves out on veg as a loss leader - particularly anything festive - and the Afghani lads on Rye Lane are brilliant for more esoteric stuff and spices, so it really doesn't need to be pricey. Here's what we came up with. It was considerably less than £100 for four. Bread & Butter (Lidl & Lurpak on offer at Iceland) Mersea Oysters (Sopers) Parsnip & Potato Soup ( I think they were both less than 20 pence a kilo at Morrisons) Smoked mackerel, Jerseys, watercress & radish (Sopers) Rolled turkey breast joint (£7.95 from Iceland) Roast Duck (two for £12 at Lidl) Mash  Carrots, star anise, butter emulsion. Stir-fried Brussels, bacon, chestnuts and Worcestershire sauce.(Lidl) Clementine and limoncello granita (all from Lidl) Stollen (Lidl) Stichelton, Cornish Cruncher, Stinking Bishop. (Marks & Sparks) There was a couple of lessons to learn: Don't freeze mash. It breaks down the cellular structure and ends up more like a French pomme purée. I renamed it 'Pomme Mikael Silvestre' after my favourite French centre-half cum left back and got away with it, but if you're not amongst football fans you may not be so lucky. Tasted great, looked like shit. Don't take the clementine granita out of the freezer too early, particularly if you've overdone it on the limoncello. It melts quickly and someone will suggest snorting it. The sugar really sticks your nostrils together on Boxing Day. Speaking of 'lost' Christmases past, John Lewis have hijacked Alison Limerick's 'Where Love Lives' for their new advert. Bastards. But not a bad ad.   Beansprout, I have a massive steel pot I bought from a Nigerian place on Choumert Road many years ago. It could do with a work out. I'm quite prepared to make a huge, spicy parsnip soup for anyone who fancies it and a few carols.  
Home
Events
Sign In

Sign In



Or sign in with one of these services

Search
×
    Search In
×
×
  • Create New...