men's definition of 'real'

[charliecharlie]

so far we have had a funny mix, but no real definition...

pankhurst

ann wid

mrs t

felicty k

elsie tanner

joanna lumley (purdy)

bardot

(some strong, some clever, some sweet 'little girlie' types)

but what do men mean when they say 'real' women???

what are the qualities you look for in your 'real' woman?

[Mikecg]

That would be telling and as far as I know it's a secret only for the knowledge of men. otherwise there would be an influx of imposters, you know what I mean, Women making out they are real, a bit like the 0898 types.

[Mikecg]

CC what do you think the real definition is?

[RosieH]

I think it's whatever you say it is Mike.

I've some over all little girlie and utterly unemancipated

[Mikecg]

Shallow RosieH Shallow and Predictable.

[Brendan]

Like wot I said on that other thread, ?one who doesn?t define herself by how she appears to men?

Well that and the rude bits I suppose.

[charliecharlie]

[quote=CC what do you think the real definition is?

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feisty

spirited

bright

comfortable with who she is

happy with her own sensuality

funny, maybe a bit playful

thoughtful

a 'grown up' woman... what ever that means!

well that's after a few drink and some comedy up at The Hob

[Mikecg]

Well done because that's about right I suppose.

[HonaloochieB]

I find humility an attractive quality.

Also to quote Bob Dylan, "Can she cook and sew, make flowers grow? Can she understand my pain"?

That'd do me.

[Huguenot]

RosieH

[Keef]

I'm not sure it's fair to include bright as a criteria. So if a woman isn't the sharpest tool in the box, she can't be a real woman? Personally I think the whole thing is nonsense. As Brendan has said, the only thing that makes a woman a woman is chromosones.

[Brendan]

I've never heard them called that before.

[Brendan]

bah

[Brendan]

dum

[Brendan]

disssh

[Tony.London Suburbs]

I find humility an attractive quality, as well.

So Ladies if you could all be just a bit more humile, it would all be fine and dandy....

[daizie]

Does humility mean the same as human or humour ? ;-) i think i am best single, i have never, ever, met anyone up to scratch, so i ask, is it really all about what you are prepared to put up with ?

[Andystar]

Personally, I find that having a V*gina makes a real woman...

Seriously, I find a massive sense of humour & wittiness v attractive, I also like a woman who is intelligent & cultured, dorkiness/koolness is a turn on, passion about life, interests etc- a woman with fire in her belly rocks, femininity always good..

Yes, I know, I've got more chance of finding the Loch Ness monster :'(

[daizie]

Andy, ideally it would be about having all of what you want, in the right degree, with the right timing, and delivered in a certain way. So many people get it wrong and are irritating, :-S

[Andystar]

daizie Wrote:

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> Andy, ideally it would be about having all of what

> you want, in the right degree, with the right

> timing, and delivered in a certain way. So many

> people get it wrong and are irritating, :-S

I agree Daizie...I was only kidding about my more chance of finding the Loch Ness monster comment, I actually just realised that I've actually described most of my female buddies, which is cool

[charliecharlie]

Depends on what your definition of bright is, Keef. That's exactly why a did not use the word intelligent, because I meant someone with a 'brightness' of personality, with a bit of sparkle (ie not dull, stodgy, pessimistic, plodding, etc.).

Anyway, I believe that there are many forms or types of intelligence, and the traditional academic model does not reflect that. I see a huge variety of types intelligence in my students, I see it in other people. IMO, conventional forms of learning do not harness or encourage expression of this variety. I have often come across children (and adults) who have been labelled a 'not bright' at school, who are the most dynamic and intelligent people...

http://evilspeculator.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/dunce.gif

[????]

That I fancy them beyond belief and that they're bright.....My gorgeous missus ticks both boxes

[charliecharlie]

not sure about the 'humility' thing... has a sort of Christian air to it, isn't there something about Mary Magdalene's humility when she washes Christ's feet.

No... maybe I have got that totally wrong and it was Christ that did the foot washing thing...

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_5hQPq_8nBw4/SINvfTbgqBI/AAAAAAAAAHs/lrWJwt1dVhg/s400/Mary+foot+washing.bmp

Mind you, I am a big fan of tenderness... there's not enough of it about these day!

So maybe we should add

'Ability to express tenderness' to the list

and what about 'Mystery'? people talk about women and mystery a lot

[Andystar]

charliecharlie Wrote:

> http://evilspeculator.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/

> 04/dunce.gif

How the hell did you get that photo of me???? Well at least it's one of my better ones.

Also, a lil bit of mystery is good, too much to the point of paranoia is bad tho..

A good woman is like an onion - many layers, pretty darn tasty & should make my eyes water a lil bit.

[PeckhamRose]

BITCH

Babe

In

Total

Control of

Herself.

That's what a lesbian told me was her ideal woman.

Then there's the Accountant joke.

An accountant had to choose between three women. So his mate gave him the idea on how to test them.

He gave each one ?100 each and told them they had a month to decide what to do with it.

First woman spends ?90 on herself and invests ?10 in the bank.

Second women spends ?30 on herself, ?30 on a gift for him, and ?40 in the bank.

Third woman puts all the money in a high interest earning account.

Which one does he choose?

The one with the biggest tits.

OK maybe that should have gone in the bad joke thread.

My hubbie chose me because we shared the three main important lifestyle choices. Child free choice, motorcycling lifestyle, and politically left of centre. (And I had big tits....)