Jump to content

Recommended Posts

Otta Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> In the 00s there were lots of people in their 20s

> living in ED. I suspect less so now due to house

> prices / rents.


I think you're right. Come to that, friends in their 30s who have rented round here and are now buying are doing so further out - Forest Hill, Catford, Norwood etc, as well as families in their 40s heading for Surrey etc.


Frankly the fact I have an asset (which I can't exactly get value for as I am living in it) which has gone up silly amounts in value isn't much compensation for the fact the prices are pushing away people I liked having in the area.


Anyway, on the topic, forums are rarely representative, even of the people who post on them, much less of the population as a whole, be that all inhabitants of an area, all fans of a band, all mums etc.


I used to post on the forum for a band that made this place look tame - the lounge equivalent could be completely vicious at times. Meet the posters in person at gigs and discovered that some of the most outrageously rude people on line were actually shy and sweet in real life.


I don't think I do, but at least some people have different on line persona - and not just like dulwichmum.

I am not saying people don't mean what they write, but I suspect a lot of people who might come across as abrasive on line are actually more pleasant if you actually met them.

indiepanda Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> I am not saying people don't mean what they write,

> but I suspect a lot of people who might come

> across as abrasive on line are actually more

> pleasant if you actually met them.


Of course... it's inevitably true. Most of us are more "direct" on here than we would be face-to-face.

As I said earlier regarding the EDF, I agree with what Jeremy said. I have this mental image of the regulars sitting at a desk (mostly in town, judging by their comments) browsing & posting all day long while working at the same time. Then again from ipads & mobiles during the journey home.


I get the impression that it's more of a boredom thing as a lot of the regulars disappear at weekends. Bank holidays are even worse. They obviously have better things to do than post on here. Which is quite frustrating. I don't have an office job so when at work can only post briefly from my phone when my boss isn't looking! I tend to be able to say a lot more on days off, evenings and bank holidays.


Sometimes the EDF is so dead at weekends, hours can go by with no-one posting in the lounge. It's a shame when you've got plenty of time to talk and nobody to talk to!

  • 3 months later...

Its not representative at all.


The views of a dozen or so regular posters here has no bearing to the views of the 1,000's of people

who reside in East Dulwich.


Talk to people in the local pubs and hear their view on the forum and their views about our area and you

will find them mostly conflicting with regards to local restaurants, pubs, food, pricing.


People who voice conflicting views here are shot down.


DulwichFox

DulwichFox Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> Its not representative at all.

>

> The views of a dozen or so regular posters here

> has no bearing to the views of the 1,000's of

> people

> who reside in East Dulwich.

>

> Talk to people in the local pubs and hear their

> view on the forum and their views about our area

> and you

> will find them mostly conflicting with regards to

> local restaurants, pubs, food, pricing.

>

> People who voice conflicting views here are shot

> down.

>

> DulwichFox



*like*

Louisa Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> This forum has not been representative since about

> 2008.

>

> Louisa.


Yes, I think it was about August 2008 when people from outside the area starting contributing posts. Administrator - is there any way the IP addresses of people from outside the area can be blocked to stop them posting in the Forum? Are IP addresses linked to geographical locality?

Bob Buzzard Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> Louisa Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > This forum has not been representative since

> about

> > 2008.

> >

> > Louisa.

>

> Yes, I think it was about August 2008 when people

> from outside the area starting contributing posts.

> Administrator - is there any way the IP addresses

> of people from outside the area can be blocked to

> stop them posting in the Forum? Are IP addresses

> linked to geographical locality?


Great idea, while you're at it stop people that don't reside in ED from frequenting the pubs, shops and using any services based in ED or traveling through ED en route to somewhere else. Terrific idea.

Parkdrive Wrote:

-------------------------------------------------------

> Bob Buzzard Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > Louisa Wrote:

> >

> --------------------------------------------------

>

> > -----

> > > This forum has not been representative since

> > about

> > > 2008.

> > >

> > > Louisa.

> >

> > Yes, I think it was about August 2008 when

> people

> > from outside the area starting contributing

> posts.

> > Administrator - is there any way the IP

> addresses

> > of people from outside the area can be blocked

> to

> > stop them posting in the Forum? Are IP

> addresses

> > linked to geographical locality?

>

> Great idea, while you're at it stop people that

> don't reside in ED from frequenting the pubs,

> shops and using any services based in ED or

> traveling through ED en route to somewhere else.

> Terrific idea.



Build a huge wall (I'll be in it's shadow on the outside)


That's what Canada did in South Park.

What about an East Dulwich ID card with the only people eligible for it being those who live in the East Dulwich map boundary? Then only those people could use the local services with a discount as you would have to produce it to get a 10% discount?

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Latest Discussions

    • We used Plusrooms for our wrap around extension. We are very pleased with the extension. But we wouldn’t use them again. Our Project Manager was a chocolate tea pot and quickly lost our trust. Plusrooms use contractors to do the work so you don’t actually know what builder you will get - just luck of the draw.   Essentially you pay for Plusrooms and they just get others to do the work. We knew this, and were happy to do this - paying for a PM essentially. However when your PM is useless, what are you paying for?? All the issues are for you to resolve - and you end up managing all contractors and the PM.   Not much went right for us - from the simple architectural drawings, to putting in windows, poorly secured building, to how long it took, builders regularly not turning up.    We agreed at the beginning to having work done on Saturdays thinking it would speed up the build. What this actually meant was our project was deprioritised during the week as some builders work on other projects.   You have to use the contractors they state - electrician, plumber, glass company etc. and they are not part of the ‘plusrooms’ costs. They provide ‘estimates, but they are wildly wrong. We ended up paying 7k for bifold doors. When we questioned the cost (as they admitted you can get the same doors for 2k) they said it’s because of the ‘service’ they provide AND I had signed a contract agreeing to use the suppliers that they have selected so have to pay whatever they charge. We were taken aback by just the size of their ‘cut’, and the lack of flexibility.    And when I pointed out things that we had agreed in writing and had paid for that were not done we had weeks of delay and internal conflict. They have a ‘finishing team’ they use with appalling reviews (decorators).  They offered an additional PM at an extra 20% for this work so that the standard would be good - why would you offer a finishing team that would not do a good job.   We were very pleased with the final result. But super expensive, super stressful. Years on, the pain fades as we love what we have - but it’s really as a result of the kitchen and the internal finishes we put in afterwards. The build (a box at the end of the house) is really pretty simple. But it’s water tight so shouldn’t complain.    The one thing I will say is that all the various things that have gone wrong with the build since finishing 4 years ago - they have come out and put right.
    • Hi, I have found a dead cat today in the  the road of vesta road se4. Near telegraph hill By the looks of things it look like it been run over which is disgusting and leave the cat as well is shocking  But  I have dropped the cat off to Medi vets in New Cross and they’re gonna try and find a microchip, but if anyone is looking for their cat, please call Medi vet’s new Cross.     I think it was white with a bit of tabby in it.    I’m very sorry to post this, but I have a cat personally myself and if this was my cat, I would want to know.       
    • Just seen on Facebook, hasten to add not sure if real but think so -26 counties offering incentives for families to go to them. Sadly, don’t think singles are included. Spain, Greece, Canada, Ireland etc of course stipulations attached . Were I younger would jump at opportunity - cash incentive…. Some towards refurbishing properties, some have to go to colleege    
    • Not keen on barbers / hairdressers.soon as your in the chair, they start talking behind your back.
Home
Events
Sign In

Sign In



Or sign in with one of these services

Search
×
    Search In
×
×
  • Create New...