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My 13 month old son has started biting me! Not while feeding thankfully but he'll pull himself up while I'm doing the dishes for example and take a chunk out of my leg!

I have tried saying 'please don't bite me, it hurts', and I have tried yelping loudly, but he gets upset and out comes the bottom lip and the tears... He bit me on the chin while we were at the doctors the other day and I had to go and check for blood (there wasn't any but it really hurt...)

Any ideas of causes or solutions/ experience of similar..?

Helen

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Hi I too had a little biter some children seem to be more inclined to bite than others! I found that the only thing that worked was the second i felt the teeth sinking was to put the child down very firmly say no and walk away. You may need to just ignore the trembling lip and tears as it is probably quite important that they make the link between biting and them feeling a bit miserable as you dont want your little biter to think its funny getting mummy to react! At 13 months they are too young to be reasoned with or understand that they have hurt you.


whilst my daughter did stop quite quickly what i did notice is that at various points of change ie new child at childminder, starting school and loss of grandfater the biting would make a very fleeting appearance !

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My son bit for a while, maybe for a about a month, and then the phase passed on its own. I didn't do anything to stop it, it just stopped on its own in time - but, like you, there were a few painful moments and I had to increase my observational skills when he was around others and other babies. He doesn't do it at all now and hasn't for months. It may just pass on its own...try not to worry about it too much for now.
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One of my sisters was a biter and he had a go at me, the next time he tried I just pushed my clenched fist into his


mouth, which he did not like and never attempted to bite me again,


but he carried on biting other unsuspecting victims.


He should've been thrashed wi''in an inch of his life, and sent to bed wi' out any tea. That'd teach 'em.

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SteveT Wrote:

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> One of my sisters was a biter and he had a go at

> me, the next time he tried I just pushed my

> clenched fist into his

>

> mouth, which he did not like and never attempted

> to bite me again,

>

> but he carried on biting other unsuspecting

> victims.

>

> He should've been thrashed wi''in an inch of his

> life, and sent to bed wi' out any tea. That'd

> teach 'em.

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What correctional facility do you reside is SteveT ?

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Our middle daughter went through a terrible biting / hitting stage at around 18mths. Mainly directed at her older sister and in frustration. We would say a sharp 'no' pick her up, put her in the playpen and leave the room until the screaming and sobs subsided. Didn't take long for the penny to drop.
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