smacking children, (who are smaller, dependant and less powerful)is still legal, but I am not allowed to smack someone my own size ???? Smacking children teaches them to smack in turn. There are many better and more respectful ways of teaching a child social skills, caring for others, right and wrong etc. It is hard for us to realise that perhaps our parents were wrong. I am a counsellor and have seen many examples of where physical assault on children has affected the lives and happiness of the adult they became.