Don't cry victim, that's pathetic. I've argued with Strafer on this forum more times than I could count. I've also agreed with him about things, including this. Ted Max has been posting on here a long time, and I've never known anyone accuse him of being rude / homophobic / racist or anything else. And no, I've never met Ted, or even shared a PM with him, except possibly a group PM. You've taken something the wrong way, and fair enough, if you say it's sometimes used as a homophobic word, I'll bow to that and take your word for it. However, several people told you you'd gotten it wrong here, but rather than saying "fair enough, my mistake", you've said everyone is ganging up on you, and started getting aggressive and personal. Have a fucking word with yourself, you are wrong on this one!