Long time since there was a post on this site. However I'm back looking for more advice or information. I don't think I ever asked this question before.My niece is in the business of blaming everyone else for her problems, especially those who are close to her. The problem as I see it from a distance, is that she does not recognise she has an illness. Have you come across this problem? It would seem that unless she does she will never recover to the point she can take responsibility for her own actions. You can't help someone who doesn't want it. Is there a way out of this dilemma?