Awww, curly toddler girl hair! Right, I have recentley had to learn some of this for my child. It depends on her hair, is the curl loose or tight? Mixed race or black hair? By no means an expert but we have used and like a brand called curly kids, they do curl cream for moisture and hold as well as schampoo and conditioners. They also have sprays and gels. We have also used twisted sister I think it is called, it is a leave in spray for moisture, they also do curl creams and gels. It is a jungle but I have had great help from the shops on rye lane. I have a habit of stopping people with curly hair and ask what they use. Everyone has been happy to share tips. I have been surprised with the care that is needed, so much moisture! My son who has short hair needs curl cream at least once a day to stop his hair from drying out and itching. In desperation I have been known to use moroccan oil....trying not to make a habit out of it as too expensive. If she has loose curls I would try the curly kids range.