midivydale

Yes can confirm that the first one is at 9.

Sorry, realised my recommendation was not Yorkshire, sorry x

Yes def! Count me in!

This thread kept me awake last night thinking (overanalysing).... I am in the camp (if there is one) who is very uncomfortable with the submissive, fairy princessy type stuff. If I had a daugther I would wholeheartedly keep an eye on these things. Like working mummy says (very wise woman) "These things matter". My own mum clearly favoured literature with more empowering women in it such as the ones I have mentioned above. I do agree that reading a story with adults eyes are something very different to that of the eyes of the child. I remember when my dad read cinders to me that it evoked feelings of empathy for her and that I understood that it was unfair that she had to do all the work and that her sisters were treated differently. I remember that this really upset me as a child and that I thought it was very unfair and unjust. I also remember discussing these feelings with my dad. Which, must in the end have been a good thing? When I was growing up we always always always talked about books that were read and programmes that were watched, something which I fully intend to do with my son as well. I most def do not think that doing so discourages reading or takes away the pleasure of literature or story telling. In fact I think it does the opposite. Again - doing this at work - which two weeks in from my return from mat leave I REALLY shouldnt... x

Hilarious! Also check "lotta" "madicken" and "tjorven" oh i do hope that they are all translated as every child deserves to read them. If not let us have a group story time and I will translate them. Anyone looking for timeless, wonderful childrens books check astrid lindgren. I saw that the bookshop on upland road (or is it north cross?) do pippi.

WorkingMummy Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > midivydale Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Makeup & Heels on, hope that doesnt affect my > > credibility :) > > > It does not! I remember what environment you work > in, mivydale. High heels and lipstick "codes" in > the city as "I am together" - much like a man's > expensive suit. Smart choice, I'd say. > > This hardly makes you like sell-out Cinderella. That made me laugh out loud (which was much needed). It is a code, and it does go someway to fake a togetherness and mask the sleepdeprived, guiltridden, emotional, tummy wobbling version of myself. Fake it til you make it, right? x

Makeup & Heels on, hope that doesnt affect my credibility :)

What an interesting thread. I have spent alot of time thinking about this when I was at home on maternity leave. In Sweden, the gender stereotyping debate has gone really really far. Too far in my opinion and I do agree with Pickle that they are children. I share the princess concern and during my pregnancy decided that if I had a daughter I wouldnt do the "pink and fairy" thing. But I had a boy and have relished in all things blue and "boyish". Double standars? Most definately and I have now added another thing to my endless "Am I a good enough mummy" list. Sorry for rambling, writing this at work...but I do share this concern with Cinderalla and perhaps an idea could be to introduce other literature as well that you choose. Have you read Pippi Longstocking to her? Not sure if those books are around anymore but Pippi is a fellow Swede who lives on her own as her mummy is in heaven and her daddy is a pirate on the seven seas. She is independent, kind, generous and a very very loyal friend. Also - she is strong enough to carry a horse: By the way working mummy - I am back at work now and everything that you predicted in one of your posts in my thread has come true...You clearly know your stuff

Oh yes, there was plenty of reactions- cheers from the "men" and nervous giggles from young women to young, naive and too keen to fit in to know any better. I thought perhaps that I had misunderstood, that my English was letting me down but no. I have thought about that comment so many times over the years (this was 1999, when I was 21). I was crushed and not equipped to deal with that situation at the time. Oh, if only I could meet him again, today. In fact- I may write to him.

"can I be a feminist and a stay at home Mum? Hell yea! It is about freedom of choice! I have just returned to work this week after a year off with my son. I am heartbroken. If I had the option to stay at home I would do so in a heartbeat and would most def not see myself as any less of a feminist. In fact, I hope that we are all feminists in our own way working to teach our children about equal opportunities.

This brought back memories of when I first turned up in the UK from Sweden to start university. I had saved for two years and was so excited for my future. At the welcome session our faculty dean started with. "in front of me today are some of tomorrows most wellpaid bankers, and some of the prettiest wives to be".... I was crushed!!

Hm, Interesting indeed that your friend has had such a great experience. I do not share it I am afraid as I have yet to even get an email response or callback from the management of the Barry Road nursery.

A very worrying read indeed.

I have been to several of them and there are so many stunning ones. My favourites are Paros and Antiparos, Thesaloniki and Lefkada - all beautiful. Santorini is stunning but no sandy beaches

I am furious! MrsS is a very dear friend of mine so my comments here are more general as we chat daily. I just want to publicly applaud you for finding the strength to continue the battle of finding the help that you need. MrsS does not only have previous personal experience of depression (by her own account above) but is also an acclaimed therapist with a degree in psychology. It is gut wrenching that a woman that has a dedicated most of her career to the mental wellbeing of some of the most vulnurable peolpe in our society is met with this barbaric attitude by health professionals! I am outraged. She has cared for, fighted for and been haunted by her patients mental health issues for years, spending sleepless nights wondering how she can best help them. Now she needs the system- and it is letting her down. How many times is she supposed to see a doctor? How ill does she need to be? On a positive note (we talked about this today) once again the solidarity and sisterhood of the women here are breathtaking. The compassion and help and kindness you show make me well up. Keep it comming- she needs it. X

Congratulations! Def join the autumn babies club when it comes up. I am part of spring babies 2012 and these ladies - and babies:) mean the world to me. Have met friends for life and you will too. Try to get the thread active as early as possible ie arrange meet ups etc so that you get to know people in your pregnancy. Once you have established a few friendships before the little one arrives makes it sooo much easier to get out and about in the early hormonal, sleepdeprived stages. X

I have recently been diagnosed with the above but have found very little help with info. If there are any fellow sufferers that could point me in the right direction I would be v grateful. In particular I am looking for treatment options that does not involve a hysterectomy. Any recommendations of specialists would be great. X

Amen! These headlines make me see red! Daily Mail I am talking to you!

MrsS, medication during pregnancy is an option, like Belle says it is a matter of weighing it up. Please speak to your midwife and GP asap- there is help at hand. Belle is right, you shouldnt just have to endure it.

Done!

Yes. A.nightmare

How about making a fuss and do a "grown up" pedicure type thing with mummy. Cut and then some polish? You and her could do it at the same time?

I have neocate if you need it?

Otta, if you are bored I have a poorly 11 month old you can borrow for a few hours:)

Multiples of for example sleepsuits and babygrows.