Ruth_Baldock Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I sound stupid saying this, but I'm going away to > Babington House, sans child, for my birthday in 3 > weeks and I will fully admit looking forward to > getting the chance to have a lovely meal > uninterrupted and being able to SLEEP > uninterrupted than I am about the actual trip. How > sad is that?! Sounds completely logical to me, and not sad at all. There's a reason they use sleep deprivation as torture... getting back to feeling normal is utter bliss. Plus there's the sense of being free of being needed so very much all the time which (though lovely in its way) is very tiring. BTW, if you do decide to try the sleep training yourself (whichever method you go with) it probably would indeed make sense to try to get some extra sleep anyhow and anytime you can in the meanwhile, and while you're doing it try to nap when your baby is napping. And doing it as a team definitely important. Best of luck - we're all rooting for you!