I love that it's either one extreme or the other, either we indoctrinate or they exist in some sort of moral vaccuum unitl the magical day when they turn 14 and go, 'do unto others....' or 'i shall henceforth worship satan'. Of course I provide them with a moral framework and guidance, the point is i present it as what I think best, but if I get it wrong, and god knows I'm only human, I'm willing to roll with it. In fact I'll be delighted if they can argue me into changing, it's called interaction and personal growth. Absolutes dictated from a bunch of men locking themselves in draughty buildings for two thousand years atempting to make sense of a bunch of twenty-ninth hand anecdotes don't really appeal to me as a design for life.