The answer is to just do your thing. BUT A big problem people may have is determining exactly WHAT is their thing. For some it's a no brainer, they have their thing and they JFDI. For others perhaps nothing (or few things) has grabbed them so intensely. Most folks I find who are doing their thing and happy in it aren't looking sideways to compare against anyone else, even if that somebody else is doing the same kinda thing, cos when you're happy doing your thing, you're happy that other people are doing their thing too.